“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How to get a girl to loose some weight?

Crissco

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Got a girl im seeing, sorta. A bit on the chunk side but by no means fat. She'll be a bombshell if she looses some weight. Any good tips for this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tell her she's fat. I'm sure it will motivate her to lose weight. You just won't be in the picture when she does :D

The only thing I can think of would be taking her out to do more active things. But unless you spend a lot of time with her and do this often, shes gotta get on board and try to lose the weight herself. I don't see how you can really get her to do that... safely.

Inception?
 

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Interesting article, but geared more towards relationships. But the one you mentioned could easily be adapted to your situation. I know some girls that would respond really well to these things. I even know some that would prefer if someone straight up told them they needed to lose weight. But others would flip out at any of these suggestions. Just be careful.
 

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PDubb75 said:
Interesting article, but geared more towards relationships. But the one you mentioned could easily be adapted to your situation. I know some girls that would respond really well to these things. I even know some that would prefer if someone straight up told them they needed to lose weight. But others would flip out at any of these suggestions. Just be careful.
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etc

Thanks for the advice bro
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Crissco

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PDubb75 said:
Interesting article, but geared more towards relationships. But the one you mentioned could easily be adapted to your situation. I know some girls that would respond really well to these things. I even know some that would prefer if someone straight up told them they needed to lose weight. But others would flip out at any of these suggestions. Just be careful.
Exactly why im not going to tell he straight up, if it comes down to it I will. Im probably going to mention something about fitness, and how I love girls who work out...its very sexy...etc

Thanks for the advice bro
 

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Got it. Since this girls into me really hard, and since the fact I met her on a dating site, she obv wants to date.

Im going to say "I love girls who work out, it shows dedication, especially if im in a relashionship with them, it proves to me that there loyal"
 

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Buy a bag of baby carrots

every time she tried to eat something fatty , smack it out of her hand and give here a carrot =] or some celery

If she gets offended you can play it off a s a joke , but you will get here thinking ,just tease her , like **** that's obviously over reacting since shes not that chunky, a good one would be when she gets in your car , as soon as she sits down , go "Woah! easy on the shocks! this car needs to last" lol

Im mostly joking around , but you get the idea
 

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Actions speak louder than words.

Lead by example.

I doubt that talking to her about it would change anything.

But if she sees you looking your best, getting attention from other girls, and realises that you're willing to walk away unless she shapes up, that should motivate her to follow your lead.

If not...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chances are slim man. last girl i was with was a whale and she didn't look like she was losing that anytime soon. she was always drinking coke and it put me off. i couldn't take it anymore and just ditched her. find a healthy girl :D
 

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She saw me looking awesome today, she kept feeling my muscles.


Shes coming over next weekend, how about i take her out, and flirt with other girls that look better then her??
 

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U can't change ppl at all. U can be koy and do active things with her and eat healthy with her but that is it otherwise she is who she is and if u r a **** and say something to her then all u r going to do is give her a complex. If u r not serious about her then just have some fun with her but if u r serious about her then u better accept how she looks and accept the potential for some extra lbs if u r with her for a long time.
 

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Trying to change her to becoming skinny is like them trying to change bad boys into good men.

Pretty much a freaking waste of time. Only disappointment, heartbreaks and regret awaits you
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When an ex of mine put some weight on, I actually told her! After sex I touched her belly and said in a playfull way, "hey, what's this woman?" She answered "leave me alone!" in a playfull way too! That was the beggining, after that, a couple of days later I asked her if she would be interested in joining me in jogging cause I wanted to exercise my body a little bit and it would be a great chance for her to lose those extra pounds in her belly!

I believe that you should tell her! We are supposed to have what we want and not compromise with less that that!
 

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I've recently lost 15 lb of fat so I know exactly how to do this.

1) Detox - get her the Zand Cleansing Kit - it's a bunch of natural herbs (as of today these are now outlawed in Europe but have been safely used for thousands of years).

2) Fresh Grapefruit first thing in the morning on an empty stomach.

3) Fresh squeezed Lemonade with Stevia and filtered water as your main drink.

4) Green Tea.

5) Bicycling (have a destination that is 5-10 miles away).
 

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Say "you should come to the gym with me, you'd look like a model if you trained", bully her into it.
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
When an ex of mine put some weight on, I actually told her! After sex I touched her belly and said in a playfull way, "hey, what's this woman?" She answered "leave me alone!" in a playfull way too! That was the beggining, after that, a couple of days later I asked her if she would be interested in joining me in jogging cause I wanted to exercise my body a little bit and it would be a great chance for her to lose those extra pounds in her belly!

I believe that you should tell her! We are supposed to have what we want and not compromise with less that that!
This might just work..Im gonig to do that tonight plus the story telling about how i like fit girls
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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