Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
if u cant take her as she is and b satisfied u need to next this relationship...lets say she losses weight..unless she really wants to she'll just gain it all back
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to get a girl to loose some weight?
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
QFT +repIamJosan said:
The girl I'm currently exclusive with told me that she used to be chubby in the past. Right now she's nice and slim. I tell her (usually after we've fucked) that I love her body the way it is. She asks me what if she were to become chubby again. I tell her that I only like pretty, slim women and that is the reason she's in my bed with me.
She gets my point.
If you don't like fat girls, don't date them to begin with. A smart girl who is in love will keep slim if she knows her man will leave if she becomes fat. They let themselves become fat when the know the guy doesn't have any options.
When you guys go out for dinner, order a salad or something light, (chicken will be your best friend) and then she'll probably order the same thing. Avoid fast food restaurants with her, and go for hikes/walks or since summer is coming check out if theres any bike tours in the area or canoe down the rivers.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
If she doesn't respect her own body enough to look after it then how is she suppose to respect you. My two cents worth.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.