"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How masculine do my features look as of now? Rate however you want, quite curious.

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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.

You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.

So my advice is more attention to grooming.
 

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Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.

You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.

So my advice is more attention to grooming.
Thank you. My hair is long actually, but it was ponytailed in that pic. Let me give you the full extent.
 

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So glad my ship has an alarm!

Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think you look masculine, just a few changes to make. I'd definitely get a bad boy haircut instead of that long hair. Also, how well do you sleep and how much sleep do you get? I think more rest, exercise and meditation would help the dark area around your eyes.
 

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I read some where that you are a photographer, so I think keeping the artistic look is a must. I'd keep the long hair but get it cut professionally so its tidy and get some good haircare product. Check out the long hair options in the following link.

http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/

I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
 

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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.

If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
 

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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.

If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
Agreed. Shave it off till the testosterone flows and I'd get a haircut. Hair looks all greasy
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
How old are you. I think it takes time as well. I'm 30 in this pic. Way more masculine than I was at 24
 

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Fade the sides and keep the middle medium with your hair being combed back. Trim the mustache and keep the goate
 
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