lizardking82
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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How masculine do my features look as of now? Rate however you want, quite curious.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.
You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.
So my advice is more attention to grooming.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.
You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.
So my advice is more attention to grooming.
lizardking82
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Thank you. My hair is long actually, but it was ponytailed in that pic. Let me give you the full extent.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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You look like a Jack Sparrow that's less tan. Like you seriously do look like a pirate haha. I would just try to fashion the facial hair a little bit, nothing insane really.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
So glad my ship has an alarm!
Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Masculinity
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I think you look masculine, just a few changes to make. I'd definitely get a bad boy haircut instead of that long hair. Also, how well do you sleep and how much sleep do you get? I think more rest, exercise and meditation would help the dark area around your eyes.
I read some where that you are a photographer, so I think keeping the artistic look is a must. I'd keep the long hair but get it cut professionally so its tidy and get some good haircare product. Check out the long hair options in the following link.
http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/
I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/
I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
Who Dares Win
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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.
If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
CMNILS87
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Agreed. Shave it off till the testosterone flows and I'd get a haircut. Hair looks all greasy
kenpiffyjr
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Get the man bun. You'll be good.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
CMNILS87
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How old are you. I think it takes time as well. I'm 30 in this pic. Way more masculine than I was at 24
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youngprodigy
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Fade the sides and keep the middle medium with your hair being combed back. Trim the mustache and keep the goate