lizardking82
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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How masculine do my features look as of now? Rate however you want, quite curious.
- Thread starter lizardking82
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.
You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.
So my advice is more attention to grooming.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.
You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.
So my advice is more attention to grooming.
lizardking82
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Thank you. My hair is long actually, but it was ponytailed in that pic. Let me give you the full extent.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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You look like a Jack Sparrow that's less tan. Like you seriously do look like a pirate haha. I would just try to fashion the facial hair a little bit, nothing insane really.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
So glad my ship has an alarm!
Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Masculinity
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I think you look masculine, just a few changes to make. I'd definitely get a bad boy haircut instead of that long hair. Also, how well do you sleep and how much sleep do you get? I think more rest, exercise and meditation would help the dark area around your eyes.
I read some where that you are a photographer, so I think keeping the artistic look is a must. I'd keep the long hair but get it cut professionally so its tidy and get some good haircare product. Check out the long hair options in the following link.
http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/
I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/
I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
Who Dares Win
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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.
If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
CMNILS87
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Agreed. Shave it off till the testosterone flows and I'd get a haircut. Hair looks all greasy
kenpiffyjr
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Get the man bun. You'll be good.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CMNILS87
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How old are you. I think it takes time as well. I'm 30 in this pic. Way more masculine than I was at 24
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youngprodigy
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Fade the sides and keep the middle medium with your hair being combed back. Trim the mustache and keep the goate