"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How masculine do my features look as of now? Rate however you want, quite curious.

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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.

You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.

So my advice is more attention to grooming.
 

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Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.

You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.

So my advice is more attention to grooming.
Thank you. My hair is long actually, but it was ponytailed in that pic. Let me give you the full extent.
 

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So glad my ship has an alarm!

Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think you look masculine, just a few changes to make. I'd definitely get a bad boy haircut instead of that long hair. Also, how well do you sleep and how much sleep do you get? I think more rest, exercise and meditation would help the dark area around your eyes.
 

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I read some where that you are a photographer, so I think keeping the artistic look is a must. I'd keep the long hair but get it cut professionally so its tidy and get some good haircare product. Check out the long hair options in the following link.

http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/

I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
 

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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.

If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
 

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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.

If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
Agreed. Shave it off till the testosterone flows and I'd get a haircut. Hair looks all greasy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
How old are you. I think it takes time as well. I'm 30 in this pic. Way more masculine than I was at 24
 

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Fade the sides and keep the middle medium with your hair being combed back. Trim the mustache and keep the goate
 
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