"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How masculine do my features look as of now? Rate however you want, quite curious.

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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.

You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.

So my advice is more attention to grooming.
 

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Cut the hair off the sides leave some on top. I think a fade would look good on you.
Keep the mustache and goatee but get the mustache shaped.
Either grow a beard or shave that stuff off the sides or your face it make a you look dirty.

You have a nice head of hair and potential to be really nice looking, but you could easily put on dirty clothes and pass for homeless right now.

So my advice is more attention to grooming.
Thank you. My hair is long actually, but it was ponytailed in that pic. Let me give you the full extent.
 

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So glad my ship has an alarm!

Kidding aside...I don't see a problem...go spin plates!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think you look masculine, just a few changes to make. I'd definitely get a bad boy haircut instead of that long hair. Also, how well do you sleep and how much sleep do you get? I think more rest, exercise and meditation would help the dark area around your eyes.
 

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I read some where that you are a photographer, so I think keeping the artistic look is a must. I'd keep the long hair but get it cut professionally so its tidy and get some good haircare product. Check out the long hair options in the following link.

http://www.fashionbeans.com/2016/the-biggest-mens-hair-trends-for-2017/

I'd keep the beard at a shadow until its thicker although maybe keep the moustache.
 

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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.

If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
 

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Unless you can grow a full beard and mustache just keep it short, it makes you look like a teenage guy trying to look older.

If you drop some bodyfat and water weight your face will look great, good hair line and brown/greenish eyes are a great starting point.
Agreed. Shave it off till the testosterone flows and I'd get a haircut. Hair looks all greasy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Say anything you think and what could be tuned? Bare in mind I weight about 75 kg right now and am 1,75 tall.Starting gym in beginning of July.
How old are you. I think it takes time as well. I'm 30 in this pic. Way more masculine than I was at 24
 

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Fade the sides and keep the middle medium with your hair being combed back. Trim the mustache and keep the goate
 
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