Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Wish us luck!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gonna wing for my incel bud im SF tonight
- Thread starter Hamurabimbi
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hah good luck man, Marina? Geary? SOMA?
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Soma.
took a ride share Uber. Had a nice conversation with a cute, friendly co-rider. . Good start.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Place is prerry dead (early) But of course. Gay guy hits on me.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Par for the course
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Cute girl dancing solo. Try to get my bud to damce with her. But he wont. Grrrrrr!!!
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
He doesn’t drino. She’s wiggling & shaking her A$$ in my face & smiling at me. But my MF friend is ignoring it.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
If I wrew single. I’d destroy her. Getting tempted as she kreps wiggling & smiling at me. Tried tobget my bud un here. But her refused.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Sad state of American men. No guy approached her and she hung out by me ()me larping as a single guy). If I wete single I’d have been on that like white on rice.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
SF tech dude.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Ding ding ding
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
1/2 the MF’s here are masked. Fvck SF.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Last call 1230. SF nightlife is crap. This wad a happening club pre-covid. So sad.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Bro vanished i
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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What gave it away? Lmao
nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
- Joined
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- Age
- 29
Gotta be able to dance with her for sure…
Not being able to dance with her == Bad Game
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Props for at least trying to help the boyos out.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.