Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Wish us luck!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Gonna wing for my incel bud im SF tonight
- Thread starter Hamurabimbi
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hah good luck man, Marina? Geary? SOMA?
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Soma.
took a ride share Uber. Had a nice conversation with a cute, friendly co-rider. . Good start.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Place is prerry dead (early) But of course. Gay guy hits on me.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Par for the course
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Cute girl dancing solo. Try to get my bud to damce with her. But he wont. Grrrrrr!!!
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
He doesn’t drino. She’s wiggling & shaking her A$$ in my face & smiling at me. But my MF friend is ignoring it.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
If I wrew single. I’d destroy her. Getting tempted as she kreps wiggling & smiling at me. Tried tobget my bud un here. But her refused.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Sad state of American men. No guy approached her and she hung out by me ()me larping as a single guy). If I wete single I’d have been on that like white on rice.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
SF tech dude.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Ding ding ding
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
1/2 the MF’s here are masked. Fvck SF.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Last call 1230. SF nightlife is crap. This wad a happening club pre-covid. So sad.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Bro vanished i
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
nicksaiz65
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What gave it away? Lmao
nicksaiz65
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Gotta be able to dance with her for sure…
Not being able to dance with her == Bad Game
Mike32ct
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Props for at least trying to help the boyos out.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.