Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Wish us luck!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Gonna wing for my incel bud im SF tonight
- Thread starter Hamurabimbi
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hah good luck man, Marina? Geary? SOMA?
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Soma.
took a ride share Uber. Had a nice conversation with a cute, friendly co-rider. . Good start.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Place is prerry dead (early) But of course. Gay guy hits on me.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Par for the course
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Cute girl dancing solo. Try to get my bud to damce with her. But he wont. Grrrrrr!!!
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
He doesn’t drino. She’s wiggling & shaking her A$$ in my face & smiling at me. But my MF friend is ignoring it.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
If I wrew single. I’d destroy her. Getting tempted as she kreps wiggling & smiling at me. Tried tobget my bud un here. But her refused.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Sad state of American men. No guy approached her and she hung out by me ()me larping as a single guy). If I wete single I’d have been on that like white on rice.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
SF tech dude.
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
Ding ding ding
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
1/2 the MF’s here are masked. Fvck SF.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Last call 1230. SF nightlife is crap. This wad a happening club pre-covid. So sad.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Bro vanished i
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
Managed to get into a happening $&& club free. Via charm & luck & charm. Ltots of poon here. Too bad my friend bailed & I can only LARP.
nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
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What gave it away? Lmao
nicksaiz65
Master Don Juan
- Joined
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Gotta be able to dance with her for sure…
Not being able to dance with her == Bad Game
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Props for at least trying to help the boyos out.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.