“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Face it, Direct Game is not a good way to meet girls.

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sexybeast said:
You lot give me jokes.

Question: Do you guys think direct behavior is based on complementing and flattering the girl?
no, it's about telling them straight up what you think of them without any bs.

That's why it doesn't work.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's never what you say, but how you say it. The opener matters very little..its how you game them afterwards that counts.

The fact that most of you focus this much on an opening line shows how little you know about both women and seduction.
 

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no, it's about telling them straight up what you think of them without any bs.
Well not really. You cant tell a girl "what you think of them" before you get to know them. Unless your being straight up about her "looks" ie flattery and complemts off the bat.

That isnt direct.
 

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directions directly directing them to derelict?
 

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D!ck Ramsey said:

But see I think Woodhaven really just described a form of Indirect game. This aticle is quite old and I think Indirect has morphed into being more "direct" since then. While the new Direct guys are suggesting things like, telling the girl she's "beautiful"", you want to get to know her", "tell her what your really thinking", "let her know verbally you want to have sex with her. Mode One basically tells guys to propostion girls, even tell them you want to fvck them. He apparently got his imspiration for this as an impressionable teen from watching an 80's-era porn Talk Dirty to Me back when porn had a plot and dialogue :rolleyes:.

I think using compliments and express your interest and intent is what makes it become direct. I think it's bad game in general.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Guitar_Whizz said:
Looks are not the problem, but anyway here is me:-

www.faceparty.com/neil_the_rocker

I'm going to delete that link shortly because this is a public forum!!


I am sitting at work, reading this BULLSHYT, and NOT A SINGLE PERSON MENTIONS THE OBVIOUS!!! I had to join just to say this (though i look forward to contributing further)

GuitarWizz, you are ugly and creepy looking

direct approach, let alone cold approach, only works for guys who look at the very least decent - aka I cannot picture a beautiful lady being attracted to you

you have weird long hair, you are skinny as hell, and you really look like you don't try to look good AT ALL


before you think about going for girls, you should first go to the gym and work on your style, because it is literally DISGUSTING

and yea, good job all you guys who replied, you didn't even tell GuitarWhizz the OBVIOUS reason why he has no success!

no hot girl wants to talk to a guy who looks like him, whether direct or indirect!

Whizz, get your azz some better looks (its very easy, gym, haircut, clothes, and you will look much much better)

god, you guys
 

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I am sitting at work, reading this BULLSHYT, and NOT A SINGLE PERSON MENTIONS THE OBVIOUS!!! I had to join just to say this (though i look forward to contributing further)

GuitarWizz, you are ugly and creepy looking

direct approach, let alone cold approach, only works for guys who look at the very least decent - aka I cannot picture a beautiful lady being attracted to you

you have weird long hair, you are skinny as hell, and you really look like you don't try to look good AT ALL


before you think about going for girls, you should first go to the gym and work on your style, because it is literally DISGUSTING

and yea, good job all you guys who replied, you didn't even tell GuitarWhizz the OBVIOUS reason why he has no success!

no hot girl wants to talk to a guy who looks like him, whether direct or indirect!

Whizz, get your azz some better looks (its very easy, gym, haircut, clothes, and you will look much much better)
 

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Nah nah, he is on the ugly side but he can do some indirect with some ugly girls and do fine.
 

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direct approach, let alone cold approach, only works for guys who look at the very least decent
That's what some of us are saying being Direct gives you no leverage and all you have to work with is your looks.
 

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Real said:
I am sitting at work, reading this BULLSHYT, and NOT A SINGLE PERSON MENTIONS THE OBVIOUS!!! I had to join just to say this (though i look forward to contributing further)

GuitarWizz, you are ugly and creepy looking

direct approach, let alone cold approach, only works for guys who look at the very least decent - aka I cannot picture a beautiful lady being attracted to you

you have weird long hair, you are skinny as hell, and you really look like you don't try to look good AT ALL


before you think about going for girls, you should first go to the gym and work on your style, because it is literally DISGUSTING

and yea, good job all you guys who replied, you didn't even tell GuitarWhizz the OBVIOUS reason why he has no success!

no hot girl wants to talk to a guy who looks like him, whether direct or indirect!

Whizz, get your azz some better looks (its very easy, gym, haircut, clothes, and you will look much much better)
This is absolute f*cking bull****!

Many PUAs I've sarged with have said they wish they were as good looking as me.

I also regularly get complimented on my looks and style by girls.

Seriously, it's not my looks that are the issue.

It's my inner game. I have a ton of work to do on my inner game when it comes to direct. Anyway, I'm not massively keen on direct as a whole (it's not very classy to say the least).

Thanks for the replies, it's been an interesting discussion. I may incorporate some direct into my overall seduction skillset - however I'd much prefer to stick to a method similar to hat Mike Pilinski suggests.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guitar_Whizz said:
This is absolute f*cking bull****!

Many PUAs I've sarged with have said they wish they were as good looking as me.

I also regularly get complimented on my looks and style by girls.

Seriously, it's not my looks that are the issue.

It's my inner game. I have a ton of work to do on my inner game when it comes to direct. Anyway, I'm not massively keen on direct as a whole (it's not very classy to say the least).

Thanks for the replies, it's been an interesting discussion. I don't think ultimately direct game will be the bulk of my main sarging routine, I'm going to stick to natural game.

how badly are you in denial?

no girl wants to be hit on by you PERIOD because you look like you don't even try to take care of yourself
 

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I use direct game quite a bit and it's my preferred method of meeting girls in the public domain. I'm not huge on canned bullsh!t and routines so I do better just being myself.

I DO usually only go direct on a girl if she's given me IOI's. I'm not a bad looking guy so this happens somewhat regularly. Once I get the eye contact or smile, I just approach and say whatever. All this BS about NOT verbalizing intentions is stupid...if she's going to reject me, I'd rather get rejected by going balls out on a girl letting her know whats up rather than pretending I dont think she's hot and don't want to go out with her.

Plus for me, it's way more fun to do this...pretty awesome adrenaline high...;)
 

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Direct Sucks:rockon:
 

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zerocelcius said:
Direct Sucks:rockon:
I went into town today to do some direct day game and then later meet up for a drink with my friend.

I approached 5 women directly in this time, would have done more but my results were very good today so decided to leave it at that.

I closed a 9, 8 and a 7 and was actually closed by the 8 herself. I'd consider 2 of the 3 closes solid, the other may be flakey.

The other 2/5, both were good interactions but they insisted that they had bf's but it was 'nice to meet you :)'.

I'd say that direct game is perfectly fine tbh, I mean I've had a few bad days with it but I have had that with indirect too. If I can close attractive women like this, I think it's a decent method.

SAYING that, I think direct puts your appearance on the line a lot; you'll get judged on this a lot when you do direct, so unless you're confident that you're attractive, it'll be hard to get success.

I'd say I'm a good looking guy and attractive to most girls, so I think I do ok with this because of that. Saying that, indirect can work fine too.

EDIT: Sorry didn't mean to brag or anything with this post, I should add I did direct day game the other day, did 10 direct approaches, but got no numbers despite good interactions. Things go like that sometimes.
 

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Mad Manic said:
...EDIT: Sorry didn't mean to brag or anything with this post, I should add I did direct day game the other day, did 10 direct approaches, but got no numbers despite good interactions. Things go like that sometimes.
The belief is that if it doesn't work 100% of the time it isn't viable.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
The belief is that if it doesn't work 100% of the time it isn't viable.
Lol, funny you should say that. When I got numbers off the 8 and 9 on my first 2 approaches I was like "woooo I wanna go for 5/5, that's what Style and Mystery claim! :D", sadly that ended on number 3 and then on 4, but got a 7 at the end. :)
 

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Direct game is terrible don't use it. You have been warned.

If your talking to her she already knows you want it, so talking about it just makes you look like a creepy loser.
 

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I think direct game only works if you can tell that she is checking you out, or something along those lines...... I would probably say something to her like, "I can't stand it, I had to come say hello to you.....necessity compelled me....."

Although I would have to feel something or get a look from her or something...
 

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Okay anybody who thinks direct game does sh!t. Go out to any random girl and say "Hi, I think your pretty." and tell us what happens, I've done this I know what the reaction will be.
 

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Direct game works if you are getting a CLEAR IOI before you approach OR if you are playing the numbers game (ask 100 girls "want to ****", one might say yes).

Direct game also works if you are a comedian, magician or entertainer who can grab her attention, captivate and amaze her and demonstrate high value immediately.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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