"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As a horse owner she is the leader in that relationship. Some guys can't deal with that. But as a whole, horse GIRLS tend to prioritize their horses over their men. I mean the horse is 1100 pounds of rippling muscle with a **** the diameter of a coke can and 12 inches long who love to cuddle. If you can't appreciate what a horse girl sees in her horse you will never understand them. If you aren't a horseman, stay the f away from horse girls.
LMAO, hilarious. I think you're right based on the horse girls I've met out in the midwest here. That's the married woman my former love was pining for. Smh.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As a horse owner she is the leader in that relationship.
okay, a couple of them i know date total betas, probably explains why? they like controlling the relationship
 

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okay, a couple of them i know date total betas, probably explains why? they like controlling the relationship
They need the betas to provide them the finances needed to maintain the horses as they cost a fortune to upkeep. And if they don't have the beta males, then the woman in question has no money, in debt and forever trying to make ends meet. In other words, always struggling. And the roll on effect leads to craziness on a whole new level,
 

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A woman will not make you happy if you are not already happy. You must make yourself happy. She is just the icing on a cake and should never be your entire life or reason for existence.
This is gold. By far the most important piece of advice that a man, no matter his age, should and must understands.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As a horse owner she is the leader in that relationship. Some guys can't deal with that. But as a whole, horse GIRLS tend to prioritize their horses over their men.
Twice before I learned my lesson. Often I reminded her she is not the boss, stop asking me to feed the horses. Stop starting your sentences with the word "no". Me-I'm taking you to the movies , Her NO I'm shoeing a horse. Last straw was her asking me if I could pay a vet bill, I said sure went out to my truck and left for good! 2nd one was bossy, mean, masculine, frigid. Amazing how something so hot could be so cold. Not sure why she even liked men?

If I'm ever with another horse chick, she's riding side saddle..
 

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Twice before I learned my lesson. Often I reminded her she is not the boss, stop asking me to feed the horses. Stop starting your sentences with the word "no". Me-I'm taking you to the movies , Her NO I'm shoeing a horse. Last straw was her asking me if I could pay a vet bill, I said sure went out to my truck and left for good! 2nd one was bossy, mean, masculine, frigid. Amazing how something so hot could be so cold. Not sure why she even liked men?

If I'm ever with another horse chick, she's riding side saddle..
In terms of d!ck size, yours can never compare with that of a horse's.
 

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Never, ever, EVER, take sh*t from a B*tch - And females aren't the only b*tches I'm referring to!
 

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It's just a wet hole.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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go abroad.


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Anybody know what happened to Straight_Up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Respect is everything. Seek respect from people above all else.
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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