LMAO, hilarious. I think you're right based on the horse girls I've met out in the midwest here. That's the married woman my former love was pining for. Smh.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
everyone, if you had one peice of advice to pass on to someone about women...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
okay, a couple of them i know date total betas, probably explains why? they like controlling the relationship
Travel memoir21
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Whatever happened to Back Breaker? Is the dude still betting on horses or something? lol
Max Baker
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They need the betas to provide them the finances needed to maintain the horses as they cost a fortune to upkeep. And if they don't have the beta males, then the woman in question has no money, in debt and forever trying to make ends meet. In other words, always struggling. And the roll on effect leads to craziness on a whole new level,
manfrombelow
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This is gold. By far the most important piece of advice that a man, no matter his age, should and must understands.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
jimwho
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Twice before I learned my lesson. Often I reminded her she is not the boss, stop asking me to feed the horses. Stop starting your sentences with the word "no". Me-I'm taking you to the movies , Her NO I'm shoeing a horse. Last straw was her asking me if I could pay a vet bill, I said sure went out to my truck and left for good! 2nd one was bossy, mean, masculine, frigid. Amazing how something so hot could be so cold. Not sure why she even liked men?
If I'm ever with another horse chick, she's riding side saddle..
manfrombelow
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In terms of d!ck size, yours can never compare with that of a horse's.
lost_blackbird
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It's just a wet hole.
AureliusMaximus
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A woman should be worthy of you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lost_blackbird
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I never shut up - 2 years abstinence.
Mister_Skinny_Jeanz
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AureliusMaximus
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Unless it's your mom xD
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
King Lion
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True...Bless her soul!
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Wow reviving a 13 year old thread...this one is like Lazarus coming back from the dead...
Bingo-Player
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Haha i had never heard of that guy before but he speaks a lot of sense
Atom Smasher
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Horses serve to siphon off a woman's affection for your manliness, leaving nothing but a token trace for you.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.