Really good to get you going on talking to people. This is a great tip, a must read.
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don Juan Gold Tip Album
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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^^^^^^^
Bourne
Dude that is really good.
Bourne
Dude that is really good.
Docs
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Jariel's Tip Sheet
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100791
Perfect starting point for any newbies and much more concise than the DJ Bible!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100791
Perfect starting point for any newbies and much more concise than the DJ Bible!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lessons I'm learning by Killapetehog
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101699
Like the above tip this is another ideal starting point which newbies should be pointed towards!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=101699
Like the above tip this is another ideal starting point which newbies should be pointed towards!
anonymousguy
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Most commonly asked newbie questions answered right here!
Guide to Flirting by a social anthropologist A scientific approach on flirting. Free and reliable and it is quite good
Social Basis of Human Behavior: Sex Another scientific approach, but then on which men and women we like. You cannot wipe out millions of years of evolution.
If anyone else has scientific approaches, I'd like to read them.
Guide to Flirting by a social anthropologist A scientific approach on flirting. Free and reliable and it is quite good
Social Basis of Human Behavior: Sex Another scientific approach, but then on which men and women we like. You cannot wipe out millions of years of evolution.
If anyone else has scientific approaches, I'd like to read them.
anonymousguy
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Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
jackie_legs
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this ones is about massaging ( sp) to me its cool.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=87542
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=87542
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18040
Still THE best thread on this site Sadly most people seem to forget to read it. 100% more success guaranteed!
Still THE best thread on this site Sadly most people seem to forget to read it. 100% more success guaranteed!
lol... the language filter ruined the link -- it's "heartless-bi'tches.com (without the apostrophe, duh). Click on the link and replace the stars up in the link box with "*****es"anonymousguy said:Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
jackie_legs
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heres a video of some dude approaching. to me its good.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103830
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103830
Centaurion
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lol hahah I didn't know I was used as an example of what not to do. But it's all good for the greater purpose.Docs said:FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs&std alert!) - Centaurion - A Excellent example of what not to do. (sorry cent, but this is gold)
And remember kids, drugs are bad for ya!
Docs
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Permission
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Docs, I remember seeing your pic of your gf, and honestly I was just being nice to you. She is like an HB 7.5 even though you said she was an HB9. If you don't believe me, you can even submit a picture of her on those rating websites and I'm sure that's what it would be close to.
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.
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---Permission said:Docs, I remember seeing your pic of your gf, and honestly I was just being nice to you. She is like an HB 7.5 even though you said she was an HB9. If you don't believe me, you can even submit a picture of her on those rating websites and I'm sure that's what it would be close to.
You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think. I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support. Where's your girlfriend anyways?
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.-_-, you realize that maybe 4 of the posted material is Pook? He got 3..4...5 stars, but how come the other tips posted don't have stars? This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
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If you could care less then that means you care. loldocs said:You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think.
If you think she's an HB9 then that's all that really matters. Good for you for thinking that.
I know so that's why I suggested that you could even put her picture up on a site to rate her. But as I said, as long as you think she is an HB9, then all the power to you.I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support.
If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
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Probably because it might of helped them?Permission said:If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?
anonymousguy
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yes. I think it is good there's a sticky that will point out the good articles and weed out the bad articles. For people like me, that do not have a lot of time to read all the threads, this is a huge time saver.
Keep up the good work.
Keep up the good work.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.