Really good to get you going on talking to people. This is a great tip, a must read.
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol... the language filter ruined the link -- it's "heartless-bi'tches.com (without the apostrophe, duh). Click on the link and replace the stars up in the link box with "*****es"anonymousguy said:Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
lol hahah I didn't know I was used as an example of what not to do. But it's all good for the greater purpose.Docs said:FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs&std alert!) - Centaurion - A Excellent example of what not to do. (sorry cent, but this is gold)
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
---Permission said:Docs, I remember seeing your pic of your gf, and honestly I was just being nice to you. She is like an HB 7.5 even though you said she was an HB9. If you don't believe me, you can even submit a picture of her on those rating websites and I'm sure that's what it would be close to.
You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think. I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support. Where's your girlfriend anyways?
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.-_-, you realize that maybe 4 of the posted material is Pook? He got 3..4...5 stars, but how come the other tips posted don't have stars? This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
If you could care less then that means you care. loldocs said:You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think.
I know so that's why I suggested that you could even put her picture up on a site to rate her. But as I said, as long as you think she is an HB9, then all the power to you.I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support.
If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
Probably because it might of helped them?Permission said:If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.