Really good to get you going on talking to people. This is a great tip, a must read.
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol... the language filter ruined the link -- it's "heartless-bi'tches.com (without the apostrophe, duh). Click on the link and replace the stars up in the link box with "*****es"anonymousguy said:Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
lol hahah I didn't know I was used as an example of what not to do. But it's all good for the greater purpose.Docs said:FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs&std alert!) - Centaurion - A Excellent example of what not to do. (sorry cent, but this is gold)
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
---Permission said:Docs, I remember seeing your pic of your gf, and honestly I was just being nice to you. She is like an HB 7.5 even though you said she was an HB9. If you don't believe me, you can even submit a picture of her on those rating websites and I'm sure that's what it would be close to.
You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think. I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support. Where's your girlfriend anyways?
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.-_-, you realize that maybe 4 of the posted material is Pook? He got 3..4...5 stars, but how come the other tips posted don't have stars? This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
If you could care less then that means you care. loldocs said:You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think.
I know so that's why I suggested that you could even put her picture up on a site to rate her. But as I said, as long as you think she is an HB9, then all the power to you.I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support.
If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
Probably because it might of helped them?Permission said:If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.