Really good to get you going on talking to people. This is a great tip, a must read.
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lol... the language filter ruined the link -- it's "heartless-bi'tches.com (without the apostrophe, duh). Click on the link and replace the stars up in the link box with "*****es"anonymousguy said:Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
lol hahah I didn't know I was used as an example of what not to do. But it's all good for the greater purpose.Docs said:FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs&std alert!) - Centaurion - A Excellent example of what not to do. (sorry cent, but this is gold)
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
---Permission said:Docs, I remember seeing your pic of your gf, and honestly I was just being nice to you. She is like an HB 7.5 even though you said she was an HB9. If you don't believe me, you can even submit a picture of her on those rating websites and I'm sure that's what it would be close to.
You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think. I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support. Where's your girlfriend anyways?
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.-_-, you realize that maybe 4 of the posted material is Pook? He got 3..4...5 stars, but how come the other tips posted don't have stars? This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
If you could care less then that means you care. loldocs said:You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think.
I know so that's why I suggested that you could even put her picture up on a site to rate her. But as I said, as long as you think she is an HB9, then all the power to you.I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support.
If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
Probably because it might of helped them?Permission said:If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.