Really good to get you going on talking to people. This is a great tip, a must read.
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
Tip on Seductive Conversation by Pickupskill
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lol... the language filter ruined the link -- it's "heartless-bi'tches.com (without the apostrophe, duh). Click on the link and replace the stars up in the link box with "*****es"anonymousguy said:Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS Good female view on the Nice guy vs Jerk debate. I think this is the only article you'll ever need to read about it!
lol hahah I didn't know I was used as an example of what not to do. But it's all good for the greater purpose.Docs said:FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs&std alert!) - Centaurion - A Excellent example of what not to do. (sorry cent, but this is gold)
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
---Permission said:Docs, I remember seeing your pic of your gf, and honestly I was just being nice to you. She is like an HB 7.5 even though you said she was an HB9. If you don't believe me, you can even submit a picture of her on those rating websites and I'm sure that's what it would be close to.
You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think. I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support. Where's your girlfriend anyways?
The purpose of this thread is also kind of pointless. There is a thing called a "sort" that exists where a person can sort through ratings, views, replies; so there is no need for this to be here. This thread really should not be stickied.-_-, you realize that maybe 4 of the posted material is Pook? He got 3..4...5 stars, but how come the other tips posted don't have stars? This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
If you could care less then that means you care. loldocs said:You're out to show the world you're right, and you're not. To YOU, she is a HB7.5, to me, I could care less what you can think.
I know so that's why I suggested that you could even put her picture up on a site to rate her. But as I said, as long as you think she is an HB9, then all the power to you.I like who I like, and your opinion of her really is irrevelent as a method of support.
If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?This thread is a means of discovering them. Sorry bud, but you got no basis again...
Probably because it might of helped them?Permission said:If one person posts a link to some thread on here, what's the control factor in saying it's even a good thread?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.