"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Finished updating.

MetalFortress, Dee-Zy, and Kinetic, your posts are in the bible now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
 
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Originally posted by wipz
Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
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Start with:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30862

And you'll be way ahead of the game.

Pretty much covers all you need to know if you want a quick start.

btw, thx CK - I know my thread has been slept on for a long time but I was 100% sure it is first page Bible material.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by wipz
Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
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Alright, I'll do something to make posts a "must-read."
 
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Originally posted by Danny Zuko
Great work mate I appreciate the effort put into this. Dead link "Are you a guy who JUST CANT APPROACH? Part 2" never been able to read this post even in the old DJB really eager to give it a look!

Edit: Found the post here is the correct link http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=42638
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Fixed, thanks.

Anyone else that runs into a dead link, let me know.
 
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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Start with:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30862

And you'll be way ahead of the game.

Pretty much covers all you need to know if you want a quick start.

btw, thx CK - I know my thread has been slept on for a long time but I was 100% sure it is first page Bible material.
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Haha, thinking highly of your own post, eh? ;) Nah, it's a good one.

Alright people, give me a short list (via PM) of the posts that are "must-read" because this essentially is The People's Bible.
 
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edit. sent via PM to crazy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by dcfball
Any chance of getting a PDF format of the bible???
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Read the reply I posted earlier.
 
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I'll consider the links you sent me.
 
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Alright baseball, posted the links you gave me. I wish I had searched earlier.

Alright people, keep the links coming in and don't forget to give me the threads you want to be "must read" status.
 
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Woo! This thing is going great. I'll check the "who's online" section every so often and most of the posts the Guests and newer members are reading are Bible posts.
 
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Ok people, PM me for the posts you want to have made "Must Read." Only 1 post has been PM'ed to me...I won't mark it until I get a few more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am looking, it takes time

Give me three days to look up posts for the bible:cool:

Send a PM on the third day

I have to look around abit.
 
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I created a whole forum of links I thought were good Under Davinci... was nice till it got smooshed up.
 
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Under his infinite wisom, Nicholas Hill has handed over most of the DJ Bible duties (adding posts) to me. Do you all still want this bible up as a place to post what you think should be added/deleted/Must Read, or should I lock this and let it die? I'll put all the posts into the bible in due time.
 
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keep as thread

I am still looking for new posts

I am also looking through the archieve and wondering if they can go into the bible because they used to be tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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