Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Finished updating.

MetalFortress, Dee-Zy, and Kinetic, your posts are in the bible now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
 
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Originally posted by wipz
Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
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Start with:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30862

And you'll be way ahead of the game.

Pretty much covers all you need to know if you want a quick start.

btw, thx CK - I know my thread has been slept on for a long time but I was 100% sure it is first page Bible material.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by wipz
Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
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Alright, I'll do something to make posts a "must-read."
 
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Originally posted by Danny Zuko
Great work mate I appreciate the effort put into this. Dead link "Are you a guy who JUST CANT APPROACH? Part 2" never been able to read this post even in the old DJB really eager to give it a look!

Edit: Found the post here is the correct link http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=42638
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Fixed, thanks.

Anyone else that runs into a dead link, let me know.
 
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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Start with:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30862

And you'll be way ahead of the game.

Pretty much covers all you need to know if you want a quick start.

btw, thx CK - I know my thread has been slept on for a long time but I was 100% sure it is first page Bible material.
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Haha, thinking highly of your own post, eh? ;) Nah, it's a good one.

Alright people, give me a short list (via PM) of the posts that are "must-read" because this essentially is The People's Bible.
 
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edit. sent via PM to crazy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by dcfball
Any chance of getting a PDF format of the bible???
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Read the reply I posted earlier.
 
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I'll consider the links you sent me.
 
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Alright baseball, posted the links you gave me. I wish I had searched earlier.

Alright people, keep the links coming in and don't forget to give me the threads you want to be "must read" status.
 
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Woo! This thing is going great. I'll check the "who's online" section every so often and most of the posts the Guests and newer members are reading are Bible posts.
 
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Ok people, PM me for the posts you want to have made "Must Read." Only 1 post has been PM'ed to me...I won't mark it until I get a few more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am looking, it takes time

Give me three days to look up posts for the bible:cool:

Send a PM on the third day

I have to look around abit.
 
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I created a whole forum of links I thought were good Under Davinci... was nice till it got smooshed up.
 
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Under his infinite wisom, Nicholas Hill has handed over most of the DJ Bible duties (adding posts) to me. Do you all still want this bible up as a place to post what you think should be added/deleted/Must Read, or should I lock this and let it die? I'll put all the posts into the bible in due time.
 
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keep as thread

I am still looking for new posts

I am also looking through the archieve and wondering if they can go into the bible because they used to be tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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