"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Finished updating.

MetalFortress, Dee-Zy, and Kinetic, your posts are in the bible now.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
 

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Originally posted by wipz
Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
Start with:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30862

And you'll be way ahead of the game.

Pretty much covers all you need to know if you want a quick start.

btw, thx CK - I know my thread has been slept on for a long time but I was 100% sure it is first page Bible material.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by wipz
Most of this stuff is great, but odds are that nobody will read all of these. There's just too much info for most people to read unless they have a few months on their hands to just read this, let alone get out. Hell I don't even remember seein half these threads. Can you make like an asterik, however its spelled, next to the must read ones... or highlight them or whatever. And I'm not talking about half the threads like in the original bible, I mean like 3-4 per category. The best of the best, like Fingers Mass Seduction or Pook's Be a Man.
Alright, I'll do something to make posts a "must-read."
 

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Originally posted by Danny Zuko
Great work mate I appreciate the effort put into this. Dead link "Are you a guy who JUST CANT APPROACH? Part 2" never been able to read this post even in the old DJB really eager to give it a look!

Edit: Found the post here is the correct link http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=42638
Fixed, thanks.

Anyone else that runs into a dead link, let me know.
 

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
Start with:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30862

And you'll be way ahead of the game.

Pretty much covers all you need to know if you want a quick start.

btw, thx CK - I know my thread has been slept on for a long time but I was 100% sure it is first page Bible material.
Haha, thinking highly of your own post, eh? ;) Nah, it's a good one.

Alright people, give me a short list (via PM) of the posts that are "must-read" because this essentially is The People's Bible.
 

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edit. sent via PM to crazy
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by dcfball
Any chance of getting a PDF format of the bible???
Read the reply I posted earlier.
 

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Originally posted by baseballDJ
edit. sent via PM to crazy
I'll consider the links you sent me.
 

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Alright baseball, posted the links you gave me. I wish I had searched earlier.

Alright people, keep the links coming in and don't forget to give me the threads you want to be "must read" status.
 

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Woo! This thing is going great. I'll check the "who's online" section every so often and most of the posts the Guests and newer members are reading are Bible posts.
 

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Ok people, PM me for the posts you want to have made "Must Read." Only 1 post has been PM'ed to me...I won't mark it until I get a few more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am looking, it takes time

Give me three days to look up posts for the bible:cool:

Send a PM on the third day

I have to look around abit.
 

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I created a whole forum of links I thought were good Under Davinci... was nice till it got smooshed up.
 

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Under his infinite wisom, Nicholas Hill has handed over most of the DJ Bible duties (adding posts) to me. Do you all still want this bible up as a place to post what you think should be added/deleted/Must Read, or should I lock this and let it die? I'll put all the posts into the bible in due time.
 

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keep as thread

I am still looking for new posts

I am also looking through the archieve and wondering if they can go into the bible because they used to be tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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