"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, yes and yes Focal core.
I think the punching in the face is in defense situations only.
And trust me when i say a true Alpha males only made devastating demonstration when hes being threatened and leave a vast destruction behind. Theres no myth when hes wearing his armour upon threathening situation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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And trust me when i say a true Alpha males only made devastating demonstration when hes being threatened and leave a vast destruction behind. Theres no myth when hes wearing his armour upon threathening situation.
My instructor says that too.
Violence is sudden, with no warning and I must assume the person attacking intends to end my life.
Freezing must be overcome and ACTION is required, something we know women aren't used to, lol.

He teaches that all men/humans freeze in some violent scenarios, but must be able to snap into a defensive mode that equals or surpasses your antagonist.

Technique is not as important as ACTION, if you know what I mean.
 

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My instructor says that too.
Violence is sudden, with no warning and I must assume the person attacking intends to end my life.
Freezing must be overcome and ACTION is required, something we know women aren't used to, lol.

He teaches that all men/humans freeze in some violent scenarios, but must be able to snap into a defensive mode that equals or surpasses your antagonist.

Technique is not as important as ACTION, if you know what I mean.
For alpha males its natural and easy like breathing, for the rest of us it does take some courage. Even to truly love someone took courage and to fully accept someone to love you take self-esteem.
 

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I'm asking cause I heard that strength/weight ration doesn't increase after a certain point no matter how much body weight. Larry wheels just happens to be an anomaly
Larry wheels is a very methodical trainer. Making use of excellent coaches.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I live in Houston so we're about 4 hours from each other...however I'd rather not see PDA(anything more than hand-arm holding/hugging, soft touch etc) not because I have a stick up my azz but rather it makes me feel AWKWARD if I can't avoid the situation(ex. coffee shop they're table right in front of me and they're making out like they haven't seen each other in a while). It's not that it happens a lot but the rare times it does I'm thinking wtf lol.
Would you rather see straights occasionally happy enough to do it? Or would you rather everyone be all stiff and gays are the only ones free enough to do it?
 

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PDA 'public displays of affection' is difficult for a lot of people to witness as when witnessing, they are usually not also partaking in their own PDA. A pda couple will always laugh off another pda couple in good fun. Also, depends on your upbringing.

It DOES seem unequal that openly 'new' types of couples like the gays are readily accepted but your commonplace straights are frowned at or shamed for displaying pda in public.

People rarely even touch each other any more in public(kino).

I like to and don't mind receiving it either.(nonsexual areas and greeting/goodbye hugs; only greeting kisses on cheeks; placing hand on forearm and leaving it there; reinforcing strong conversation points with taps on back of hand or biceps area; standing close) Zero kino in 2 months now with respecting physical 6' covid distancing.

I find the social connection is more memorable and meaningful and it seems to relax people and improve their moods. Males and females.
 

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Feminism feels that women being feminine and "loving" in public shows "weakness"? They are some fvcking sick fvcks...
Masculine men always looking for their opposite, femine female, thats rare as an alphas itself. Everywhere i see attrative women with weak men orbiting/plating them like a dog waiting a bone to be thrown off, even a bone making fhese half breed man feeling magical, i always feels a shame for these men when i walked past them, piece of trash.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Masculine men always looking for their opposite, femine female, thats rare as an alphas itself. Everywhere i see attrative women with weak men orbiting/plating them like a dog waiting a bone to be thrown off, even a bone making fhese half breed man feeling magical, i always feels a shame for these men when i walked past them, piece of trash.
You did realize white knights thought they were getting attraction points or might get some scraps tossed to them, when they c0ck block and pass the lady information?
 

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Right! These azzholes want straight men beat down and would rather see gays. To see straits loving each other makes their blood BOIL!!!!
If LGBT community is mad at straight PDA that is retarted...damn I hate typical PC social justice warrior left wing types of people..... if this is different from what you're talking about my bad lol I don't feel like reading the thread
 

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If LGBT community is mad at straight PDA that is retarted...damn I hate typical PC social justice warrior left wing types of people..... if this is different from what you're talking about my bad lol I don't feel like reading the thread
Dude, one of our guys said it was FEMINISM that gets into a raging anger when it sees man on woman PDA. They hate it, it disgusts them. They think it's weakness in females.
 

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You did realize white knights thought they were getting attraction points or might get some scraps tossed to them, when they c0ck block and pass the lady information?
There slave to their own ignorance/oblivious to these girls theyre just a puppet for amusements.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Public Displays of Affection. Kissing, hugging, hand holding, slap on the ass, sitting on lap, etc.
Being in playfully loving relationships are a weakness? No wonder these women are pump and dump ended up fvking their cats when hits the wall. I wont settle less then being in a playfully respect for each other loving reciprocal kind of relationship .. Its the dynamics thafs ive been put in my mating strategies for quite sometime now.. It requires deep emotional connections .. That's proof that feminist totally asinine misguided piece of shlt.
 

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I'm asking cause I heard that strength/weight ration doesn't increase after a certain point no matter how much body weight. Larry wheels just happens to be an anomaly
We don't know that yet. These 450lb guys may just have 300lbs of muscle on them. The 400+lb power lifter is a new thing. Perhaps one day that 450lb guy will have 380lbs of functional rock hard muscle and the numbers will go up?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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