You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And trust me when i say a true Alpha males only made devastating demonstration when hes being threatened and leave a vast destruction behind. Theres no myth when hes wearing his armour upon threathening situation.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My instructor says that too.
For alpha males its natural and easy like breathing, for the rest of us it does take some courage. Even to truly love someone took courage and to fully accept someone to love you take self-esteem.
excellent, yes +1 I agree
Larry wheels is a very methodical trainer. Making use of excellent coaches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Would you rather see straights occasionally happy enough to do it? Or would you rather everyone be all stiff and gays are the only ones free enough to do it?
Feminism feels that women being feminine and "loving" in public shows "weakness"? They are some fvcking sick fvcks...
Masculine men always looking for their opposite, femine female, thats rare as an alphas itself. Everywhere i see attrative women with weak men orbiting/plating them like a dog waiting a bone to be thrown off, even a bone making fhese half breed man feeling magical, i always feels a shame for these men when i walked past them, piece of trash.
Id rather see straight if I had to choose one lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Right! These azzholes want straight men beat down and would rather see gays. To see straits loving each other makes their blood BOIL!!!!
You did realize white knights thought they were getting attraction points or might get some scraps tossed to them, when they c0ck block and pass the lady information?
If LGBT community is mad at straight PDA that is retarted...damn I hate typical PC social justice warrior left wing types of people..... if this is different from what you're talking about my bad lol I don't feel like reading the thread
Dude, one of our guys said it was FEMINISM that gets into a raging anger when it sees man on woman PDA. They hate it, it disgusts them. They think it's weakness in females.
There slave to their own ignorance/oblivious to these girls theyre just a puppet for amusements.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wtf are PDA?
Public Displays of Affection. Kissing, hugging, hand holding, slap on the ass, sitting on lap, etc.
Many whiteknights in USA are "alpha" in men, they don't understand women. Lots of marines, defend womens honor for example. Those same women have no honor,.
Being in playfully loving relationships are a weakness? No wonder these women are pump and dump ended up fvking their cats when hits the wall. I wont settle less then being in a playfully respect for each other loving reciprocal kind of relationship .. Its the dynamics thafs ive been put in my mating strategies for quite sometime now.. It requires deep emotional connections .. That's proof that feminist totally asinine misguided piece of shlt.
We don't know that yet. These 450lb guys may just have 300lbs of muscle on them. The 400+lb power lifter is a new thing. Perhaps one day that 450lb guy will have 380lbs of functional rock hard muscle and the numbers will go up?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.