"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CJs cold approach journal

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Least u got a decent taste in music @BillyPilgrim

maybe those chicks were out to get validated.
Maybe they were out to get fvcked that night,
And fvcked hard.
Who knows buddy. Who knows….
Only Smarties have the answer :lol:
 

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So in continuation re my night out and 2 hot chicks I saw worth an approach.

-2 older ladies in my age bracket

- both very fit /hot bodied , plus 1 had lovely fake tits and a better face than the other

- in tight body stocking dresses and super glammed up, hair make up, heels etc they looked sexy AF

- both had very sexy, very b1tchy looking faces (RBF ->resting b1tch face). big time.
Both were total b1tches was my assessment .

-Italiano or Greek background possibly

- I watched an Indian PUA type guy open them try entertain them and get blown out as I observed them.

For reference bodies and dressed like this;
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With faces like this ;
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there was a small window to approach them.
But I stalled out racking my brain for the best strategy , and have been pondering it since , overnight :lol::rolleyes::cry:

so… what is the best approach on 2 hot bodied bitchy faced chicks like this??
Open question for the DJs here following my journal.

@CharmingPsychopath would love your take and a few bullet points on your possible approach.

@Bigpapa your approach ideas too.
"What a funny guy. He doesn't seem to leave me alone all night for some reason. It must be my good looks, lol. What is your name?"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Summary of thread...

Details of actual cold approaching: Less than 5%

Lame attempts at humor: 70%

Irrelevant information consisting of mumbo jumbo that no one asked for (nor cares about): 25%

Makes me appreciate @Plinco 's cold approach journal so much more.
 

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Summary of thread...

Details of actual cold approaching: Less than 5%

Lame attempts at humor: 70%

Irrelevant information consisting of mumbo jumbo that no one asked for (nor cares about): 25%

Makes me appreciate @Plinco 's cold approach journal so much more.
We should think about having a cold approach competition and see who gets the most. Right now I'm at 109 year to date
 

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Summary of thread...

Details of actual cold approaching: Less than 5%

Lame attempts at humor: 70%

Irrelevant information consisting of mumbo jumbo that no one asked for (nor cares about): 25%

Makes me appreciate @Plinco 's cold approach journal so much more.
summary of your summary

it’s MY journal D1ck head. I can post whatever I want here, Captain GrannyFvcker. Feel free to not visit it. Now p1ss off and go cold approach some senior citizens and don’t forget to bring that drum of lubricant. - 100%

thanks
 
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"What a funny guy. He doesn't seem to leave me alone all night for some reason. It must be my good looks, lol. What is your name?"
huh? Can you Decipher for me pls…

if I understand it could also be
“what a funny guy. But he hasn’t made a real move on me all night for some reason. He must be a NiceGuy. Shame. I better move on..”
 

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huh? Can you Decipher for me pls…

if I understand it could also be
“what a funny guy. But he hasn’t made a real move on me all night for some reason. He must be a NiceGuy. Shame. I better move on..”
Use the Indian PUA as a prop. The Indian PUA is the “funny” guy, or “crazy” guy, or whatever.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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@Clockwerk50

I don’t think too many other guys are gonna chip in so I’ll give my best strategy .. after mucho thought during and afterwards.

As it was 12am and they looked to be possibly finishing their night ..

open - a string “HEY! + YOU guys look like Fun”
Then - so have you been at the gig next door?
Then - “you ladies are looking nice tonite, all dressed up, I’m James btw (+handshake)”

Then -
The Compliance Test
“wow that dress looks backless or something can I see ? Show me. Turn around.”
Then try it on girl 2 also (hotter one w the big fake tits )

then if I get that far

The Big Play

A cold read structured sentence leading into a sexual proposition/pull offer.

“Yknow I hage a feeling about you girls,
I have a feeling..an intuition ..that you want to get out of here.
Yknowwww go somewhere else , listen to some music, drink some wine and have some good conversation (+smirk)
- with a guy just like Me (thumb to myself+ c0cky grin + jaw out)”

That’s the best course afaics in that situation w 2 hot bodied b1tches.
Come in fair quick with the big Power Frame /proposal.
After that it’s frame control and handling the tests and banter.
After that it’s them submitting and letting me lead
After that then it’s pull to my place , music and drinks, fool around and fvck. Possibly even Fvck both if they were down. ( there’s always a chance)

voila.

CJs bold approach, if he could go back in time and think quicker and clearer . lol.
 
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Update!
My HiNGE account got banned :cry::cry::cry:



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