That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fair enough.Yawn @BillyPilgrim
-they were very hot.
-I wanted to Fvck them.
That’s about the size of it.
I don’t wanna talk about it anymore
"What a funny guy. He doesn't seem to leave me alone all night for some reason. It must be my good looks, lol. What is your name?"So in continuation re my night out and 2 hot chicks I saw worth an approach.
-2 older ladies in my age bracket
- both very fit /hot bodied , plus 1 had lovely fake tits and a better face than the other
- in tight body stocking dresses and super glammed up, hair make up, heels etc they looked sexy AF
- both had very sexy, very b1tchy looking faces (RBF ->resting b1tch face). big time.
Both were total b1tches was my assessment .
-Italiano or Greek background possibly
- I watched an Indian PUA type guy open them try entertain them and get blown out as I observed them.
For reference bodies and dressed like this;
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With faces like this ;
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there was a small window to approach them.
But I stalled out racking my brain for the best strategy , and have been pondering it since , overnight
so… what is the best approach on 2 hot bodied bitchy faced chicks like this??
Open question for the DJs here following my journal.
@CharmingPsychopath would love your take and a few bullet points on your possible approach.
@Bigpapa your approach ideas too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
We should think about having a cold approach competition and see who gets the most. Right now I'm at 109 year to date
summary of your summary
huh? Can you Decipher for me pls…
Use the Indian PUA as a prop. The Indian PUA is the “funny” guy, or “crazy” guy, or whatever.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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