She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fair enough.Yawn @BillyPilgrim
-they were very hot.
-I wanted to Fvck them.
That’s about the size of it.
I don’t wanna talk about it anymore
"What a funny guy. He doesn't seem to leave me alone all night for some reason. It must be my good looks, lol. What is your name?"So in continuation re my night out and 2 hot chicks I saw worth an approach.
-2 older ladies in my age bracket
- both very fit /hot bodied , plus 1 had lovely fake tits and a better face than the other
- in tight body stocking dresses and super glammed up, hair make up, heels etc they looked sexy AF
- both had very sexy, very b1tchy looking faces (RBF ->resting b1tch face). big time.
Both were total b1tches was my assessment .
-Italiano or Greek background possibly
- I watched an Indian PUA type guy open them try entertain them and get blown out as I observed them.
For reference bodies and dressed like this;
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With faces like this ;
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there was a small window to approach them.
But I stalled out racking my brain for the best strategy , and have been pondering it since , overnight
so… what is the best approach on 2 hot bodied bitchy faced chicks like this??
Open question for the DJs here following my journal.
@CharmingPsychopath would love your take and a few bullet points on your possible approach.
@Bigpapa your approach ideas too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
We should think about having a cold approach competition and see who gets the most. Right now I'm at 109 year to date
summary of your summary
huh? Can you Decipher for me pls…
Use the Indian PUA as a prop. The Indian PUA is the “funny” guy, or “crazy” guy, or whatever.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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.Thanks for the advice. I won't forget to bring the lub.
dude you haven’t been following it.Yeah, but see; the problem with your cold approach journal is; it lacks the actual cold approaching.
And I don't see why you even created the thread, junior.
Too much coward is up in your heart area.
We both know wouldn't "cold" approach an Eskimo, in the Artic Circle, during the month of January.
You sure can.
Continue to post your lack of results.
We all want to see
We can all use this thread as Exhibit A to tell our young sons and future "Don's of America"..
"See, kids...this is exactly what not to do."
Thanks for the advice. I won't forget to bring the lub.
I have advice for you too.
When you create a cold approach journal thread; have some actual acts of cold approaching.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just out of curiosity, and as an honest question, why can't you talk to them normally? It sounds a lot like “dance, monkey, dance,” where you're so focused on executing a strategy instead of just having a conversation and seeing if there's mutual interest.
dude , they were 2 hot bodied , bitchy faced baddie ch1cks. I would barely have a chance with them based on my looks , Barely,
I'm talking about all the spinning and performance, like the scripted opener, compliance tests, cold read, power frame, smirk, ****y grin, and so on. It sounds like you're so focused on performing a routine and controlling the interaction that you're not actually getting to know the two women or finding out what they're about.
I don’t see any dancing monkey , just dominant assertive behaviour.
How to have a normal conversation with people? You just talk with the objective if finding common ground, build familiarity, and get to know them. For example, ask how they know each other, build on whatever comes up, share stories, joke around, and find similar interests. If the conversation becomes more personal and flirtatious, things can progress from there.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.