“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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CJs cold approach journal

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Least u got a decent taste in music @BillyPilgrim

maybe those chicks were out to get validated.
Maybe they were out to get fvcked that night,
And fvcked hard.
Who knows buddy. Who knows….
Only Smarties have the answer :lol:
 

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So in continuation re my night out and 2 hot chicks I saw worth an approach.

-2 older ladies in my age bracket

- both very fit /hot bodied , plus 1 had lovely fake tits and a better face than the other

- in tight body stocking dresses and super glammed up, hair make up, heels etc they looked sexy AF

- both had very sexy, very b1tchy looking faces (RBF ->resting b1tch face). big time.
Both were total b1tches was my assessment .

-Italiano or Greek background possibly

- I watched an Indian PUA type guy open them try entertain them and get blown out as I observed them.

For reference bodies and dressed like this;
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With faces like this ;
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there was a small window to approach them.
But I stalled out racking my brain for the best strategy , and have been pondering it since , overnight :lol::rolleyes::cry:

so… what is the best approach on 2 hot bodied bitchy faced chicks like this??
Open question for the DJs here following my journal.

@CharmingPsychopath would love your take and a few bullet points on your possible approach.

@Bigpapa your approach ideas too.
"What a funny guy. He doesn't seem to leave me alone all night for some reason. It must be my good looks, lol. What is your name?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Summary of thread...

Details of actual cold approaching: Less than 5%

Lame attempts at humor: 70%

Irrelevant information consisting of mumbo jumbo that no one asked for (nor cares about): 25%

Makes me appreciate @Plinco 's cold approach journal so much more.
 

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Summary of thread...

Details of actual cold approaching: Less than 5%

Lame attempts at humor: 70%

Irrelevant information consisting of mumbo jumbo that no one asked for (nor cares about): 25%

Makes me appreciate @Plinco 's cold approach journal so much more.
We should think about having a cold approach competition and see who gets the most. Right now I'm at 109 year to date
 

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Summary of thread...

Details of actual cold approaching: Less than 5%

Lame attempts at humor: 70%

Irrelevant information consisting of mumbo jumbo that no one asked for (nor cares about): 25%

Makes me appreciate @Plinco 's cold approach journal so much more.
summary of your summary

it’s MY journal D1ck head. I can post whatever I want here, Captain GrannyFvcker. Feel free to not visit it. Now p1ss off and go cold approach some senior citizens and don’t forget to bring that drum of lubricant. - 100%

thanks
 
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"What a funny guy. He doesn't seem to leave me alone all night for some reason. It must be my good looks, lol. What is your name?"
huh? Can you Decipher for me pls…

if I understand it could also be
“what a funny guy. But he hasn’t made a real move on me all night for some reason. He must be a NiceGuy. Shame. I better move on..”
 

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huh? Can you Decipher for me pls…

if I understand it could also be
“what a funny guy. But he hasn’t made a real move on me all night for some reason. He must be a NiceGuy. Shame. I better move on..”
Use the Indian PUA as a prop. The Indian PUA is the “funny” guy, or “crazy” guy, or whatever.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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@Clockwerk50

I don’t think too many other guys are gonna chip in so I’ll give my best strategy .. after mucho thought during and afterwards.

As it was 12am and they looked to be possibly finishing their night ..

open - a string “HEY! + YOU guys look like Fun”
Then - so have you been at the gig next door?
Then - “you ladies are looking nice tonite, all dressed up, I’m James btw (+handshake)”

Then -
The Compliance Test
“wow that dress looks backless or something can I see ? Show me. Turn around.”
Then try it on girl 2 also (hotter one w the big fake tits )

then if I get that far

The Big Play

A cold read structured sentence leading into a sexual proposition/pull offer.

“Yknow I hage a feeling about you girls,
I have a feeling..an intuition ..that you want to get out of here.
Yknowwww go somewhere else , listen to some music, drink some wine and have some good conversation (+smirk)
- with a guy just like Me (thumb to myself+ c0cky grin + jaw out)”

That’s the best course afaics in that situation w 2 hot bodied b1tches.
Come in fair quick with the big Power Frame /proposal.
After that it’s frame control and handling the tests and banter.
After that it’s them submitting and letting me lead
After that then it’s pull to my place , music and drinks, fool around and fvck. Possibly even Fvck both if they were down. ( there’s always a chance)

voila.

CJs bold approach, if he could go back in time and think quicker and clearer . lol.
 
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Update!
My HiNGE account got banned :cry::cry::cry:



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