GrowingPains
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes its how they THINK they wish to be treated.I don't disagree. I don't believe I was arguing that men and women think the same way. I don't think all women consider this as advantageous, although it's for different reasons than men.
Let me correct that, how they THINK they wish to be treated by men. What they think they want is often different from what they need, from what they'd actually appreciate. So yeah, boys need a male role model, preferably both parents to learn from how a man interacts with a woman.
Sothe gilette commercial is just the tip of the iceberg huh?As someone in the marketing world, I can tell you it’s mostly been overtaken by women. I guarantee that 75%+ of the Gillette team is female.
Absolutely. The social veneer makes it seem mild. That stuff is everywhere.Sothe gilette commercial is just the tip of the iceberg huh?
Its going to be a straight up Sweden... Marketing penetrates deeply and if females can hijack a male marketing commercial they can do the rest. Sweden. You do know they are taking down alphas?Absolutely. The social veneer makes it seem mild. That stuff is everywhere.
It’s like being occupied by th Nazi’s in France after loosing the country in the war.
Some men are complete collaborators. Others are oblivious. The few...are the resistance.
America won the war for independence with 3% of the population fighting the British.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sure. It’s bigger than one would think. It’s global.Its going to be a straight up Sweden... Marketing penetrates deeply and if females can hijack a male marketing commercial they can do the rest. Sweden. You do know they are taking down alphas?
An ad that inspires men to be winners instead of whiners.This is the gillette ad I saw when I was a kid that made me reach puberty on the spot...can you notice any difference?
The Sweden I've come to know is a breeding ground for effeminated men.Its going to be a straight up Sweden... Marketing penetrates deeply and if females can hijack a male marketing commercial they can do the rest. Sweden. You do know they are taking down alphas?
I wish I could use this, unfortunately you can't carry this past many airports.Do the right thing.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That’s revolting. Well that country is down the drain.The Sweden I've come to know is a breeding ground for effeminated men.
It's become so embedded within their society that it's now considered fashionable to act feminine.
Disgusting.
I do the same sometimes. If I check a second bag it comes with me as it’s under the plane. They always inspect it because they leave that notice in your bag that it was searched.I wish I could use this, unfortunately you can't carry this past many airports.
In some places you can't even bring along a can of shaving cream etc.
I usually land in some foreign country and buy toiletries packs at the duty free or just use the generic shiet at the hotel.
If you guys travel there and have swedish friends, you'll understand why a huge number of the male population is overseas, working and living in another country not wanting to return anytime soon.That’s revolting. Well that country is down the drain.
Couple of years ago in 2015 I was messaging this professional cyclist from Sweden. Saw her profile on Tinder. Some big bicycle championship was happening nearby. Anyway, she didn't care much for Sweden after travelling to many places. Just found that interesting.If you guys travel there and have swedish friends, you'll understand why a huge number of the male population is overseas, working and living in another country not wanting to return anytime soon.
Makes sense. It’s a ruined country and the men are patty-cake dudes now.Couple of years ago in 2015 I was messaging this professional cyclist from Sweden. Saw her profile on Tinder. Some big bicycle championship was happening nearby. Anyway, she didn't care much for Sweden after travelling to many places. Just found that interesting.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This is the problem with women getting most of the college degrees. A lot of red pill guys say that men should withdraw from society, not try to educate themselves or advance because they don't want to pay taxes or contribute to a culture that is feminized. This is absolute nonsense, and as long as men keep the idea that they should retreat to a basement and play video games instead of working to advance themselves, things are just going to get worse. Do it for yourself at least, if not for society.As someone in the marketing world, I can tell you it’s mostly been overtaken by women. I guarantee that 75%+ of the Gillette team is female.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.