the opposite isn't always true, unfortunately. (with bad penis)
Gonna try to stop swearing so no more vulgarity, I think D is a swear word
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Being with one Woman...
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Gonna try to stop swearing so no more vulgarity, I think D is a swear word
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They won't keep coming back to bad penis.
that's right.
a lot will keep trying and trying but eventually gotta say the words 'I'm no longer attracted'
someone figures out how to negotiate desire I'll study it
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Desire and good d1ck are two different things. Desire can't be negotiated.
hmm, I don't know much.
Because I thought there has to be desire or its not deemed good D.
Can't separate emotion from action. I might learn how the more I read on here.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A man can have good D to others and she does not see him in a sexual light.
this is true
same with females; some guys just don't see any hotness in a girl anymore
I totally accept and understand how challenging it is to be with one woman as Op's title thread.
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Yes...I have been with a few women who just had pvssies that didn't work for me...the one had a very deep pvssy and even though I am a little above average and worked her hard I felt like I wasn't getting far enough in there to really make her cvm hard. And she didn't like fingering so I couldn't even use those skills to my advantage...
Another just had a very loose pvssy and it didn't really provide any friction at all...it was like I was fvcking air.
A few others I turned down sex with because I didn't like the smell...instant boner loss.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Dude the no friction part was pretty funny. I've experienced that before. Some Women can feel extremely loose.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Like a hefty bag. And you got a fat kielbasa in your pants that make a majority of females feel tight.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.