the opposite isn't always true, unfortunately. (with bad penis)
Gonna try to stop swearing so no more vulgarity, I think D is a swear word
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Being with one Woman...
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Gonna try to stop swearing so no more vulgarity, I think D is a swear word
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They won't keep coming back to bad penis.
that's right.
a lot will keep trying and trying but eventually gotta say the words 'I'm no longer attracted'
someone figures out how to negotiate desire I'll study it
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Desire and good d1ck are two different things. Desire can't be negotiated.
hmm, I don't know much.
Because I thought there has to be desire or its not deemed good D.
Can't separate emotion from action. I might learn how the more I read on here.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A man can have good D to others and she does not see him in a sexual light.
this is true
same with females; some guys just don't see any hotness in a girl anymore
I totally accept and understand how challenging it is to be with one woman as Op's title thread.
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Yes...I have been with a few women who just had pvssies that didn't work for me...the one had a very deep pvssy and even though I am a little above average and worked her hard I felt like I wasn't getting far enough in there to really make her cvm hard. And she didn't like fingering so I couldn't even use those skills to my advantage...
Another just had a very loose pvssy and it didn't really provide any friction at all...it was like I was fvcking air.
A few others I turned down sex with because I didn't like the smell...instant boner loss.
In2theGame
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Dude the no friction part was pretty funny. I've experienced that before. Some Women can feel extremely loose.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Like a hefty bag. And you got a fat kielbasa in your pants that make a majority of females feel tight.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.