the opposite isn't always true, unfortunately. (with bad penis)
Gonna try to stop swearing so no more vulgarity, I think D is a swear word
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Being with one Woman...
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Gonna try to stop swearing so no more vulgarity, I think D is a swear word
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They won't keep coming back to bad penis.
that's right.
a lot will keep trying and trying but eventually gotta say the words 'I'm no longer attracted'
someone figures out how to negotiate desire I'll study it
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Desire and good d1ck are two different things. Desire can't be negotiated.
hmm, I don't know much.
Because I thought there has to be desire or its not deemed good D.
Can't separate emotion from action. I might learn how the more I read on here.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A man can have good D to others and she does not see him in a sexual light.
this is true
same with females; some guys just don't see any hotness in a girl anymore
I totally accept and understand how challenging it is to be with one woman as Op's title thread.
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Yes...I have been with a few women who just had pvssies that didn't work for me...the one had a very deep pvssy and even though I am a little above average and worked her hard I felt like I wasn't getting far enough in there to really make her cvm hard. And she didn't like fingering so I couldn't even use those skills to my advantage...
Another just had a very loose pvssy and it didn't really provide any friction at all...it was like I was fvcking air.
A few others I turned down sex with because I didn't like the smell...instant boner loss.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Dude the no friction part was pretty funny. I've experienced that before. Some Women can feel extremely loose.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Like a hefty bag. And you got a fat kielbasa in your pants that make a majority of females feel tight.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.