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  1. Firecrotch66

    Beginning to realize my girlfriend might be insane. Need advice if I should walk away.

    Been trying to get her to get vaccinated. Her excuse last night was "Why should I get vaccinated if I'm not sick." Then I explained to her the whole point of vaccination is help those with autoimmune disorders not get infected. To help the elderly. To ensure there is a possibility of ending the...
  2. C

    If you had one piece of advice for RELATIONSHIPS what would it be?

    I see many articles and posts about how to get women, but not to many on how to keep them or what to do when in a relationship. If you had one piece of advice for relationships what would it be?
  3. xuzaki

    Women love opportunistically ; men love idealistically

    "Women love opportunistically ; men love idealistically". I see this all over the place. But don't both men and women love opportunistically? Here's where I'm coming from: - women are attracted to males with certain qualities (good genes, status, protection, providing, etc) and can ditch a...
  4. T

    Mangina Behavior in a Relationship. A Brief Case Study on What Not To Do.

    When a man takes on the traits of a woman within a relationship he kills attraction. In this post, Mangina refers to the male in the relationship that was acting like he had a Vagina. It was also a play on his name which ironically was spelled similarly. He acted more like a woman in the...
  5. Blacksheep

    When you feel good, confident... women feel insecure. Is there any relation?

    Is there any relation about it? It feels like a woman only feel good with a man when he is miserable and low self-esteem (based on LTR). I can see this happening to me at this moment of my life and in my past experiences it was the same... I'm losing weight, taking care of my health, getting...
  6. backseatjuan

    Clean up social media & reevaluate friendships

    TOO DO: Clean up social media accounts. Put up good photos, and only good photos, get rid of garbage posts. Look up celeb social media accounts, and imitate their style photographs and posts. Reevaluate friendships, all of them. Everything not fitting with new agenda becomes and acquaintance/
  7. resilient

    Of leaves, branches, and roots

    I wanted to share with you guys a cool video @Roober sent me. It's from a musical play that toured 2005~2006 with comedian Tyler Perry dressed up as an old lady talking to a younger man who is having relationship trouble. There are many pearls of wisdom and lessons that can be taken from the...
  8. resilient

    LTR Screening: Social Media Use

    One of the tough lessons I had to learn last year and this year again is in the importance of screening a woman who is a heavy social media user. Ex: Girl 1 I let myself get burned by making an AW a main plate too early after hooking up for 2-3 months last year. First red flag was this woman...
  9. corporate_sellout

    What women are really saying

    some classic female lines from personal experience: 'I think that the kind of relationship we have is ideal. They mean: do something because this is not working. 'I am not ready for a relationship'. They mean: I am not ready for a relationship with YOU and I am ready to date the new guy I met...
  10. casanova

    I messed up my relationship and reputation, NEED HELP FAST

    I was at a party, there was a girl from my class that I have the biggest crush on, you could say I'm in love and we hooked up and that was awesome, she told me she liked me back but we were quite drunk. We slept together, we DIDNT have sexual intercourse but we did make out and do oral things...
  11. GoodOne123

    Arguments with family. Was I wrong?

    I currently live in my mother's house. I am doing this to save a bit of money before I move out. I contribute to bills and taxes already. But I do also give lifts with my car if I'm needed. Yesterday I gave a lift to my mother to a store. She said I should drive her back home from there...
  12. Mr. Focus

    I just left my girlfriend of 3 years, for business. Am I a selfish prick?

    (I'm new here) Hello everybody!!!! I am going to spend a lot of time on this forum. So, as the title says, I left my girlfriend this past weekend, the longest relationship I've ever had, so I can focus 100% on my business, and fully experience my 20's (I'm 20). I met this girl when I was 17...
  13. resilient

    Loneliness is bad for your health

    According to this MarketWatch article, loneliness is just as dangerous as obesity. Mentioned in the article: - Over 42 million Americans over the age of 45 suffer from chronic loneliness (AARP) - 1/4 of population lives alone and more than half are unmarried (U.S. Census Bureau) - Lonely...
  14. darksprezzatura


    What you say to a woman is comparatively insignificant to HOW you say it. Studies prove that the effect of a message is 7% verbal, 38% is vocal aesthetics, tone of voice and rhythm. The rest 55% is body language, posture and presence. Subtle guidelines: Wide hand movements denote high...
  15. M

    The Most Common Mistakes That Men Make Begin With How They Text.

    Whether it's a text that you sent when you just met or even the text messages that you send now or in the future. I often wondered why potential candidates that I have met in the past abruptly stopped texting me as soon as I sent a "no no" text. I kept repeating these same mistakes until I...
  16. B

    Talking to Multiple Women

    Can someone explain this concept to me? Because the way I thought, I believed that you should only invest feelings and time in one person and not have multiple people thinking that they have a chance with you etc. like you're a pimp or something. But the DJ bible and people on this site think...
  17. Maximus Rex

    5 Texting Secrets Every Man Needs To Know | How Instant Messaging Increases Intimacy?