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    Escalation to sex when it seems the girl ain't up for it.

    Ugh. So I should have just started kissing her?? All the girls I've been made it clear they wanted to ****. I never really had to "escalate". Do you think I'll get another chance?
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    Escalation to sex when it seems the girl ain't up for it.

    A girl (who contacted me through MeetUp) went on our second date tonight. We went bowling then had dinner and proceeded back to my place. I must say that she goes to church every Sunday, so I'm not quite sure how to handle a girl like this. Basically, she sat real close to me with our thighs...
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    If one way doesn't work, do the opposite.

    I don't want to take the passive role, but quite a few "gurus" teach you should wait for signals. As you know, I mostly like white girls (but I've been with girls of all races), but not all white girls like black guys. It would be a waste of time for me to approach them. I don't want to sound...
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    If one way doesn't work, do the opposite.

    It just feels wrong to approach without an invitation to approach.
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    If one way doesn't work, do the opposite.

    So you all know that I live by IOIs. I try to make eye contact with a girl and give a smile, but it seems like 99% of females run way from me. Not literally...but they make sure not to look my way and sometimes I get a cold vibe from them even if they don't say anything. You know how somebody...
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    The secret to getting women is proximity and commonality.

    I stopped doing that a long time ago. But I'm talking about that initial "spark". The ice breaker. I have a hard time doing cold approaches, and when I do she'll flake out. How can I quickly elicit something from a female and have her feel there's rapport? Basically, any tips to have a...
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    I'm officially over "looks" after seeing this couple.

    Too bad all that sh*t doesn't apply to a black guy (a nerdy black guy isn't cool). My only option is a gangsta image or well-dressed brotha. I despise gangstas so guess I gotta go with the other...
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    Interracial Dating : How do you deal with a girl's insecurity?

    Uncalled for you ****ing prick.
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    I'm officially over "looks" after seeing this couple.

    Wow, I thought she was pretty good looking. Guess my standards are low.
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    The secret to getting women is proximity and commonality.

    I may have worded this thread incorrectly and you all expected for me to share some secrets... but does anyone have a response? Anybody have tips on how to develop deep rapport (or an illusion) with a female?
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    The secret to getting women is proximity and commonality.

    Let's say a man has all the necessary qualities that attract women we all talk about everyday. The next step is to meet women and show them why he's a catch. Clubs and bars are known for flaky women. You have nothing in common with them. Let's say a stranger approached you and started...
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    I'm officially over "looks" after seeing this couple.

    http://i45.tinypic.com/eajseo.jpg http://i50.tinypic.com/6sf1g0.jpg That's him and his girlfriend. The only thing he has going for him is that he's tall. I'm not sure if he's rich (doubt it), but that doesn't matter. She could find a better looking rich dude. ****, I'm not ugly and I have...
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    Okay, stop with the BS... looks matter a whole lot!

    I never understood this... I would date any race if the female was worth dating. It's normally white and asian girls that say they only want to date a white guy. This occurs more in online dating which is why I think the average black guy has no place using dating websites.
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    Okay, stop with the BS... looks matter a whole lot!

    Do you think this guy is hot enough for this chick? http://i49.tinypic.com/11id26a.jpg
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    Plenty of Fish - nothing hurts your confidence more...

    This is all true which is why I stopped online dating. But I said that I'm gonna message everyone in my area because someone has to respond and meet up. LOL I refuse to dress or act the way people think a black person should act. It seems that my clean cut style isn't attractive to black...
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    Plenty of Fish - nothing hurts your confidence more...

    than when you see your message status as "Unread Deleted" or "Read Deleted". I'm just sending out tons of emails all saying the same thing looking for those couple chicks that are feeling me. I'm not tailoring an email to one specific girl because I tried that and it's a waste of time. I...
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    I haven't masturbated in 5 days...

    and I want to bang every woman I see. I feel more motivated to approach a girl because I just want to get in her. Well, I do want to know her and hang out, but it's like my **** is saying "stop worrying and just go talk to her so I can get wet". Plus I'm tired of being alone...so with this...
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    I was cold approached by a guy. How to use his technique on girls.

    He wasn't gay (he didn't look or act gay) but just an outgoing and very observant guy. I was meeting this girl at a restaurant/bar but there was some kind of an event going on and it was packed. This guy inside noticed me looking in and he comes out and starts a conversation like we known each...
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    Bodily Functions - The other form of body language she's really into you.

    Am I bothering you that much? How about you 'no contact' me.
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    Bodily Functions - The other form of body language she's really into you.

    A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes...
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