"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bodily Functions - The other form of body language she's really into you.

Special T

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A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
 

Exodus13

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Ummmm

I would Really would like to see my girl show how really into me she is through other ways. Ways that I wont be grossed out by.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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catman

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Special T said:
A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
 

Special T

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Iceberg said:
Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
Am I bothering you that much? How about you 'no contact' me.
 

falconslax89

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catman said:
Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
he never said anything about her being in the bathroom when you were crapping. he said her take a crap at your place
 

Kailex

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If it's an emergency... I don't mind.
It happens. I'd rather her use my bathroom than to mess up all over herself or on me later in the night. :cool:
 
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