"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bodily Functions - The other form of body language she's really into you.

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A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
 

Exodus13

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Ummmm

I would Really would like to see my girl show how really into me she is through other ways. Ways that I wont be grossed out by.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Special T said:
A co-worker and I were having a discussion about being in a LTR. He says you know a girl is truly into you if she can rip a fart in your presence or drop a deuce at your place. Some chicks are like guys and would do that on a second date, but the real feminine girls only do that with dudes they're really feeling.

So, have any of your past GFs open themselves up to you? How many months or years of comfort building did it take? Did you think of this as her really loving you or just being gross?
Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
 

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Iceberg said:
Funny. I thought you were leaving this site, yet here you are.
Am I bothering you that much? How about you 'no contact' me.
 

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catman said:
Very gross and distugsting.If she let one on accident well thats another story i guess? This is one thing that should be left in private talk about a sex turn off?? I dont want my gf in the bathroom while im taking a shet hell no!!!!!
he never said anything about her being in the bathroom when you were crapping. he said her take a crap at your place
 

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If it's an emergency... I don't mind.
It happens. I'd rather her use my bathroom than to mess up all over herself or on me later in the night. :cool:
 
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