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    a death in her family: did I handle it in an AFC way?

    Call her at the end of the week if she hasn't by then. Check in on her, and it'll have been long enough since the fact at that point that you can bring up seeing her without seeming insensitive.
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    a death in her family: did I handle it in an AFC way?

    I wouldn't worry about it. The girl I'm seeing right now got into a car accident after we'd been out a couple of times, and I called her right away and then followed up again a couple of days later. I don't think it's AFC to show concern when it's actually something serious, as opposed to...
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    Girl wants to take things slowly... but how slowly is too much?

    Well, thanks for the LOL... Sadly it was the first scenario, after we were both pretty drunk, which I'm sure led to the talk we had the next date. Just as she seemed embarrassed about making out with me at the party, she seemed to regret going that far with me, and launched into "taking it...
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    Girl wants to take things slowly... but how slowly is too much?

    Not at all. WTF man?? I like this girl, and I'm not just after sex, but at a certain point I wanna know if things are going anywhere with us or if she's just enjoying the attention until she meets a guy she's more attracted to. It's been known to happen. I've been friend-zoned before for...
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    Girl wants to take things slowly... but how slowly is too much?

    Hey guys, I posted about this girl the other day when she invited me out to dinner with her friend. Well, it turns out things are a bit more complicated than I initially realized. Let me give some background: The first time we met, we made out for a long time at a party and I think she was...
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    How much pressure is too much?

    nm - meant this as a new thread..
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    Dinner with girl and her friend

    OK... well we met at a party where we made out for a while within like an hour or so of meeting. I think she may have regretted it later or didn't want to seem like that sort or girl or whatever - talked on the phone about how she wanted to see me sober and go on a proper date. So we did...
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    Dinner with girl and her friend

    Well... the first 2 dates went well - had fun and lots of making out, etc... 3rd date she was gonna stay over but we'd had a lot to drink and I got whiskey d*ck and that was pretty much that. And now this. So I can't help but think that that messed things up big-time for us, or that she's...
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    Dinner with girl and her friend

    Thanks everyone. I told her I'd go. Turns out it'll just be dinner and her "friend" is actually her co-worker that she talks to every day. I think she's definitely just trying to get an opinion on me from someone she trusts. Please post if you have any more tips on how to handle this one...
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    Dinner with girl and her friend

    (This got accidentally posted in the HS forum, not sure how - I'm sure I posted it from here...) Hey everyone, haven't posted here in a long time but have made a lot of progress with approaches, etc, since my earlier posts. I've had a dating situation come up tho that I'd love some advice on...
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    Dinner with girl and her friend...

    Hey everyone, haven't posted here in a long time but have made a lot of progress with approaches, etc, since my earlier posts. I've had a dating situation come up tho that I'd love some advice on... I've been out with this one girl 3 times in the last couple of weeks. I felt it was going...
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    Approaching on the bus/subway

    Anyone have any experience with this? I tend to be on the bus and subway a lot each day and there are lots of times when I exchange eye contact or smiles with a girl a few times, but am not sure how to proceed from there. If the bus is crowded and you're not in a hurry to get somewhere...
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    My botched bookstore approach

    So this girl I see at the bookstore this afternoon... we're both by ourselves and we walk by each other so many times it's almost comical. For some reason I can't convince myself to talk to her until she finally comes and stands right next to me in the aisle and looks over, at which point it...
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    Fluctuating confidence

    Over the last couple of months I've been feeling like my confidence has really been on the rise - part of it, I think, because of a new start and my move to a new city, and part of it because I've been trying to push myself gradually out of my comfort zone. I've made a few approaches and have...
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    T O R O N T O !

    Hey everyone. I just moved to Toronto and would love someone to do some daytime approaches with... I live up on St Clair, 21 (but look a bit younger, I'm told), and a total newbie, so don't expect any help from me, but I'm easy-going and I'm sure we could have a good time together, especially...
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    Harpo: The girl at the bakery

    thanks brownbear, I've been trying to stay positive, and I think that probably gets easier the more you put yourself out there. I guess what I'm looking for, if I can bump this thread up (or for people who didn't feel like reading the whole story), is more of what people's strategies are...
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    Harpo: The girl at the bakery

    A few weeks ago I posted about my first clear-cut cold approach, and asked for suggestions in the Toronto area (please feel free to continue responding). Since then, I've been on a work trip to a really small town in the northern part of the country. I was pretty pissed at first because I was...
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    My first-ever cold approach

    I'm in Toronto. Thanks for the comments guys...
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