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Sometimes I hear people tell me this directly, girls or guys, and I have enough experience detecting sarcasm to say fairly confidently it is not that. When I am places with my parents, people (usually those older than me) will say to them "he's got a good sense of humour" right in front of...

I wish this was one of those posts where I'd tell you how to develop it... But the truth is, I'm looking for one of those sorts of posts.. I just recognized a lack of self respect in my life.. I let things slide that shouldn't, I don't even man up to talk to women.. I notice people don't...

Guys I'm reaching a tipping point in my life.. I know I'm not there yet, but its becoming more and more unbearable not to have girls in my life.. I know I am motivated more by escaping pain than getting pleasure at this point, and I have tried, many a time, to logic or psyche my way into...

Guys its really eye opening for me to write this.. Somehow it came to me last night, that these were the beliefs I have about people. Let me first open up a little and briefly, saying I don't have much social activity in my life, and don't do much to change that. Looking at what I am...

This is a question that's been on my mind for a while now. I am not attracted to men.. I am attracted to women. When I see women, I get feelings in my body, my thoughts stop, etc. But when I see men, I smile a little. I don't control either of these... The automatic smiling came fairly...

So the few girls I've actually interacted with, and been attracted to, all seem to have one similar characteristic, and I want to understand what it means. When we part ways, they always look at me with sad puppydog eyes, what does this mean or suggest? edit: I know this sort of question may...

I don't know what kind of advice I want to hear for this, but I hope that the right ones come along for this. A problem I have been having for a very long time, is that I have not been able to get the motivation up to meet new people. It hasn't really been as big a problem until now. I am...

Hi everyone. Please I beg you, that if you have any interest in helping people out through their problems, take the time to read this post and comment on it. The reason being that I haven't been satisfied with my life for a long time now. I have tried everything from Outer to Inner Game to...

When I talk with women, or guys, I'm always the "information guy" spitting out facts, facts, facts, never really joking around or having fun. How do I get out of this and into a more useful role?

Why is it that when a sad or bad state of being comes over me, I don't want it to go away, I don't want to let it go?

Sorry, this isnt a kinky field report, though I hope after this post one will come very soon. I'm going to keep it short and to the point, here are some things I've noticed and would like help with. Especiallly the last one. -When I see a beautiful girl, I instantly start imaging us in future...

When you have love for someone and it ends.. That love turns to suffering. Is it necessary to go through that suffering or is it healthy to just pretend like nothing happens?

I donno if it happens to you lucky chaps but in the past 6 years, all the times I've been sick it creeped up on my friday morning, was ****ed by friday night, and good as new monday. I guess I can be thankful for 2-day healing time, but damn why always the weekend?

mpw o may be a little drunk but aa dos not stand for that kind of problem my aa is for goin and talkin to girls and i got it bad. i think peoples r judgin me.. i think imnot good enough for the girl.. im ashamed of speaking.. help me men what can id o?

Im at a time inn my life now where I'm sorting through all this clutter of **** in my mind, and you know what? I don't give a **** how well off all you are or what heaven youve got in your minds, but I am not there yet. I'm just a kid and for the past 17 years of my life I've been acting like...

I just woke up from one of the first lucid dreams I've had in a while. I'm adding this line in halfway through writing mypost because I think it is important to say, this post is very jumpy. It shifts from point to point, so it may be a good idea to write down your thoughts as they come. Most...

I haven't found a response when they compliment you yet that I feel okay with. "Thanks" is usually interrupted by realizing hey they dont usually do that, they seem to have some kind of interest. Maybe the key is not thinking about it?

This is a friendly reminder. For those who want to know why just search the title of my topic* *I consider hate a wondering why, simply a misunderstanding

I'm at a point where I can feel a new paradigm emerging to my personality. I feel new things and see things in different ways, that I have never felt before, or seen only glimpses of through other people bringing them out in me, or through their actions. Right now as I write this I am feeling...

I wanna ask you about a girl I don't know. A girl I see every day but still don't know. I see her every day and every day she sees me, and she gives me looks all the time. I'd call her an 8 if I had to rate her, though I don't like that concept. She goes to my school, she has all my...