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Got a number from a relatively attractive 41 year old off of a dating app about a week ago. We texted just a very little bit one day at first but she was on a trip so we didn't make plans then and there. I reached last night (a few days later) when I knew she'd be back and right away asked what...

Met her online well over a month ago now. Very different/reserved type of chick. Got weird about removing her mask for a kiss at the end of what was a very nice 3rd date and said "Next time!". Not big into sex talk. Only made out at the end of the 4TH DATE (I know). 5th date I slept over her...

Call me paranoid or call me smart, but after having a bad experience with a plate's ex coming back into the picture and her kicking me to the curb for him, I feel it's my duty as a person and as a man to protect myself the best I can. I've been dating this girl for a few weeks and it's been...

Met a girl off Match in early March (pre covid). We went on one date which went seemingly very well, but afterwards the games began. Though she agreed to go out again, the texting was now stagnant, delayed, and sometimes just plain weird. Whether it was low interest or her just playing some...

Kind of glad it happened though because I've never asked you guys how to handle it. I think it's honestly one of the only things left that still makes me scratch my head in both anger and confusion. 35 year old SMV 7 from NYC - Divorced - Wants kids - Pediatric doctor - extremely nice/well...

Met a girl online. 33. Attractive. Nice. Outgoing. Has a great job. I'm 34. She's a little extreme with regards to the feminist stuff (i.e. Thought I should call females women and not girls, but didn't really get MAD about it). Not the type that goes to rallies and posts whacky stuff on social...

I've been going back and forth with friends and with people on another forum about this one. Let's say you went out with a girl a couple of times, maybe even just one time and for whatever the reason (Low interest, another guy maybe in the picture, etc.) she's faded away. You're spinning other...

Had a very nice date with an HB 7.5 yesterday. 36 going on 37. Extremely nice, but also very shy. I turned 35 two months ago. A bit more of the outgoing type. We hit it off chatting on a dating site and mid convo she suddenly disappeared for an entire week. Always find it weird when girls do...

I've had this happen quite a few times to me in recent memory, and it's something I really have zero tolerance for at this point. Not sure if its a newer way girls are trying to get out of dates without actually canceling themselves or what, but I've had it. Here is today's situation... First...

Year after year after year has gone by. Millions of swipes. Thousands of messages. Thousands of dollars. Seemingly endless dates. Very few flings. Zero legitimate relationships. Oh, and quite a few rounds of being legitimately hurt/devastated. This has been my life of dating from the age of...

Maybe someone can make some sense of this for me. A while back on this app I would get matches multiple times throughout the day. Sure there would be some dead days but overall I would have some activity here and there. Starting around maybe 6-7 months ago something changed and I began getting...

Hey guys, first time long time. Back with another tale about, you guessed it, a lunatic chick. Met online, pretty damn hot, I'd say HB7. But my type close to a T. Super feminist. Mysogynistic this, mysogynistic that, Trump talk, women's rights, the whole nine. (Lives in Brooklyn, go figure)...

And I'm not talking about being out with a 7 or 7.5. I'm talking when it gets to the 8 and above level. I These days my frame is the best its ever been and my game is close to razor sharp, yet one area I still can't seem to master is fighting the intimidation of being out with a super...

Hey guys. Back here with two stories of two different plates that went sour after what were great first dates and want to get opinions from some DJ's out there. This is bothering me a bit only bc in recent times I have improved GREATLY in my game and have confidence higher than ever before so...

She wasn't a true "ex" but we dated for a solid month last summer, slept together, before she ended it with me and I was pretty damn p-ssed bc I was just starting to develop some feelings. She basically told me that she didn't feel as strong for me as I did for her and was afraid she would end...

I don't think men in the 1940's and 1950's were wondering how long they should wait before they call, what they should and shouldn't say on dates, or letting the woman "come to them" so much. If anything, back in the day, men did in fact chase women a bit IMO. They were romantics and women...

Was really into Desdinova's High Score Theory and wanted to start a thread analyzing it a bit more with regards to what actually QUALIFIES as "boosting" one's high score with a woman. We all know the more you fluctuate a woman's emotions that more attracted she ultimately becomes to you, but I'm...

After me recently experiencing it personally for the first time in my life I began thinking more about it. I've also seen it many times throughout my youth and even adulthood a bit. As some of you may have read, I treated a girl like gold for two months without any real AFC tendencies involved...

Hey guys. Back here with an update of sorts to a plate I thought I smashed weeks ago, but here's the quick summary... Met girl online. Spoke nonstop for a week. Endless stuff in common. Good vibes/conversation. Was truly looking forward to an online date for the first time in a long time...

Hey guys. First post in many, MANY years here. Part of that is because well, I feel like I outgrew these forums a bit, and another part is because there hasn't been much for me to talk about until now, which should give you an idea about how important I feel this post actually is. I'm a...