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I would like to aim this more toward the older guys here but I guess guys my age (19-21) can comment as well. I'll be to the point because who likes reading an ungodly amount of black font on white background? The thesis is in bold below. I'm 19. A sophomore University student at a local...

It's crazy. Even on our date tonight, my girlfriend and I couldn't even be in the house alone until her mother was present. We snuggled on the couch while her mother has her bedroom door wide open. S*** I couldn't even go into my girlfriend's bedroom? I mean her mom is coo but she can't fathom...

Is it possible to be raised a nice guy, read material on seduction, and then transform into a jerk? I mean isn't that the whole Nature versus Nurture ordeal? If you were raised or grow up shy, not confident, etc can you make the crucial transition to not necessarily a jerk put to a...

This is just a hard concept for me to grasp. How can I become not a wussy? It's not overnight but still. I know people at my school don't take me serious. Maybe because I'm in all the nerdy classes or whatever. But how do you present that attitude of "Mess with me and I'll jack you up"? Also I...

I just realized something that I do. When I speak to a girl I speak to them as a friend. Stuff like, "How are you" or "What's up" It's like I'm scared of the puss. How did you guys get over the hump? haha do you guys even know what I'm talking about? Where you start talking to the girl in terms...

Fear. Fear of approaching Fear of failure Fear is starting to enrapture my life essentially. And no I'm not a shy hermit at school. Quite the contrary, straight A student, great presenter, involved in school, great looks(however I stress looks don't mean squat) however I just can't overcome...

Has this ever happen to anybody? You spoke with the girl while you were naive in the world where everything was happy-go-lucky aka AFC traits. The girl didn't find that attractive obviously. But this year I got it together. My confidence has improved and what not. But I thought once attraction...

There's this girl at my school I'm trying to get at. Best looking girl in the school easy. 5'8''/Tan complexion, exotic eyes, curly long brown hair with black highlights/brown eyes/slim waist/preppy clothing--I mean she's that deal and the other girls know it too. I C+F her, I mean I do that...

not only just women but does anything tangible bring happiness? I never hear anyone say that women bring lasting happiness. Like drugs, alcohol, money--a temporary happiness ya know?

...well I think I do. Instead of purchasing a new PS3, I'm going to go get some nice clothes and exert myself more into the social envoirment rather than playing video games.:nono: I mean playing them is fine but it can get addicting and it's time for me to move on. So I'm going to make a more...

Excuse me if I come off as uninformed but whatever happened to just approaching a girl with a "Hey, what's up" while being well groomed? Does that not work anymore?

Anyone wanna go hit up Mall of America? About the age of 17, 18, 19?

For some reason I always thought that the best Don Juan was the one that didn't speak to the girl but rather played it coo. Um do you actually need to talk? (I"m sensing this question is too complex that it might be simple)

Is confidence correlated with how we look? If you just woke up outta bed with bad breath, your is unkept, your clothes aren't ironed, do you still approach or is it the whole package of things? Such as I know I can get her number because my hair is cut, i have some fresh clothes on, and I'm a...

(Longer than I expected) Ok...I've been messin with this yella bone with dimples, brown freckles, curly thin hair, brown eyes, athletic body, intelligent and about 5'9 or 5'10'' girl. I watched a couple movies with her at my uncle's house and her house and I took a risk and grabbed to her. To my...

Being respected. Gaining respect. How do you gain the respect of others? I used to believe this as un intrinsic masculine phenomenon. Meaning that you will comfortably be able to get your point across without being ridiculed. For women to be able to take you seriously. Voice tonality. Because...

Come on ya'll. People are asking silly questions. Like getting a woman is rocket science. "If a girl says I'm sexy, what does that mean exactly?" Lmao give me a break. "If she calls me 7 times instead of 5 times what does that mean?" Dudes need to stop asking and being needy and get out into the...

In a nut shell could we say that to attract women you need to be a self-sufficient man whom places emphasis on himself and lives his life for his self and not women. :yes:

Is that true. Just because a girl in attracted do you doesn't mean she will go out with you or is that a conundrum? If a girl is attracted to a tough guy does that mean theoretically she will go out with him? Basically I'm trying to say once you have them "attracted" is it a wrap?

Oposites atrract. Protons and electrons. Peanut Butter and Jelly. Girls and Boys. The thing is if like many boys you were raised mostly by your mother thus creating a sort of "softness" Well a girl will not be attracted to a girly man yet how can someone whom maybe spent 17 years of their lives...