"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T (no Aretha Franklin)

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Being respected. Gaining respect. How do you gain the respect of others? I used to believe this as un intrinsic masculine phenomenon. Meaning that you will comfortably be able to get your point across without being ridiculed. For women to be able to take you seriously. Voice tonality. Because I've come to this conclusion: A real DJ attracts women not necessarily seeking them but rather the women seeking us due to our competence of life. Has anyone here ever had to check someone on how they were talking to you?
I'm reading Pook's Bible entry on Be a Man and trying to decipher

alright ~1~:cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you respect yourself, people will respect you.
And if someone doesn't respect you and his social value is higher than yuors than its time to mpve up on the ladder.
 
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