"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Attraction does't Equal Appealing?

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Is that true. Just because a girl in attracted do you doesn't mean she will go out with you or is that a conundrum? If a girl is attracted to a tough guy does that mean theoretically she will go out with him? Basically I'm trying to say once you have them "attracted" is it a wrap?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You can't control attraction, but you can control who you date/****/kiss.. blah blah.

I'm sure there are some girls attracted to some guys, but are afraid of what other people think because they aren't as "popular" as the other guys. They may have the looks, confidence, personality... just lacking in the popularity department.. and it just might be enough for a girl to tell you know.

I think I'm an example of this. There are some girls attracted to me, but are too afraid to step out of the box and take a chance with a guy like me. Instead they just flock around the football players and what no, oh well, their loss.
 
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She will want you, but will probably wait for you to make the move, leaving hints along the way. If you fail that portion of the game, she will probably lose her attraction in you and/or cry herself to sleep every night. Depending on the person.
 
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