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There's a girl at my gym who I was initially interested in, but decided to LJBF as we've not much in common and she seems to like having 'satellite' men orbiting her. Anyway, we'd set up a date for tonight a while back, and today she flakes with the most shameless story of 'being invited to...

Met a girl at a party a couple of weeks ago. She is SMOKING hot - I mean a clear 9 - looks like a cross between Marilyn Monroe and Kylie Minogue - petite but perfectly in proportion, with large, pert breasts, and a kitten face with big eyes. She's also funny and easy to talk to. We got on...

Anyone else feel like this? Being a DJ to me means more than women, it's about making the most of yourself. I've just about had my fill of flakey, women who are just not worth the effort. It seems to take a hell of an effort just to get a date with these skanks, who do nothing in...

Man, sometimes women are bizarre. No, make that bizarre all the time. There's an HB8 I've known as an acquaintance for a couple of years, but I never made a move because she had a BF, but she'd occasionally invited me to parties and swimming (we go to the same gym). Recently she split...

Recently I've been worried that despite what we're told here, women seem to PREFER afcs. Many men I know in relationships are totally whipped, and most women seem to take a pride in lording it over their men. I've been wondering 'is it better to just give in and supplicate to a woman...

Since becoming a DJ, the number of ONS and STRs have increased dramatically. But does anyone feel jaded about all this? It really doesn't seem to be what I want. When I've had ONS, I've often had a few drinks, am a bit nervous and so have had erection problems. I either can't get it...

Man, the DJ stuff is powerful. I have just witnessed its effects. I've been seeing a Russian girl for a while (see my previous thread 'HB gets weird after sex'). Although I liked her I wasn't mad about her and didn't see much LTR potential. She had shown some red flags so I had put her...

Just met a hot chick at my gym, and we're going to a 1930s party at the weekend. She asked where the best place was to buy 30s clothing, so I told her an area of London I knew had lots of retro shops. So she said would I come and help her pick something out the afternoon before the...

I know there was a post on this but I can't find it - apologies. What is the best way to deal with 'the talk' - you know, when a woman says 'where is this relationship going'/'what do you think of me' etc. I'm pretty sure the answer should be non-committal but what are the best exact...

Don't get me wrong, I think DJs are what most women want, but there seem to be a sizeable proportion of women, especially in the UK, who actually PREFER dating AFCs and who are repelled by DJ tactics. The stronger, career orientated type of woman often seems to have an AFC in tow and seems...

I've been seeing a Russian girl for a while. No big deal, she's nice to talk to but I'm not mad about her. She, on the other hand, has said she really likes me. We'd made out a couple of times but I wasn't pushing for sex as I'm just not fussed. Anyway, she came over last night, and started...

Met a nice girl at the gym the other day and chatted for ages, got plenty of EC etc. Saw her again at the gym a few nights later and had the same thing, so asked for her number. She gave me her business card (first warning sign). Then I emailed her and we went out for a drink, it all...

Following on from the funny thread on things chicks say to blow you out on the phone, what howlers have you heard from women who've dumped you after STRs or LTRs? I've had: 'I thought I was over a past relationship, now I realise I'm not' 'We're too similar' 'I've realised I just...

Went on a second date last night and this woman is already trying to change me! However I countered it with a good tip. She ran her fingers through my hair and said I should shave my hair off (I'm going a bit bald). Now back in the AFC day, I would have supplicated and said 'oh really, mmmm...

I recently met a woman off an online dating site. She's 35 and a bit of a 'cougar'. I'd say on my scale she was a 6 at best. We got on quite well, she's intelligent and funny. Anyway we had sex a couple of times which was pretty good, and she said she doesn't want committment, she's happy...

The DJ power has really been working for me lately. Got three girls 'on the go' so my 'game' is really peaking at the moment. Oddly, this made me flake on a woman! I can see now why women do this to men. She's a quite nice girl I went out with a couple of times but decided I didn't...

Following on from my previous post, this is a constant problem I'm having. We're told if a woman likes us, she'll make it easy to get a date. I have little trouble setting up first dates that go well. But that's as far as it seems to get. When I ask them out again, I get something along...

Went on a date with HB7 the other day - it seemed to go well - C&F, kino, walking arm in arm etc, plus got a text from her next day saying she enjoyed herself. So two days later I call, chat for a bit and suggest meeting up this weekend. She says 'I don't think I can make it, I'm moving...

Renewing my passport recently, I noticed the pic of me taken ten years ago. I had much better defined cheekbones and jawline. Now I was REALLY skinny in those days - 5'7" and weighed about 112 pounds. I've put on a bit more weight recently (up to about 135 pounds) which suits me fine, but it...

Further to my recent post about meeting an HB9 off the internet who wanted sex, we met up last night. In real life she turned out to be nearer a 7 than a 9, but was still pretty and seemed quite nice - no flakey behaviour. Was very upfront about wanting sex so after dinner we went back to my...