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  1. MoreThanSmooth

    What to text when she’s out of town?

    Had a really good night the other day with a friend of a friend at a bar. One of my female friends knows a smoking hot girl and she set us up a bit by getting me a seat next to her. We got on really well and I spent most of the night just flat out cuddling with her, gave her a kiss at the end...
  2. MoreThanSmooth

    Girls saying you're smart and "geeky". Insult or compliment?

    I'm chatting to a girl at the moment and on the positive side she's said that she finds my intelligence "really sexy". Good, right? The issue for me is that although she keeps going on about how smart I am, she also says I'm "geeky" or a "nerd". Not such a fan of that. This is the third girl...
  3. MoreThanSmooth

    She always talks about sex with other people

    I can't work this one out. Every time I talk to this chick she's turning the conversation sexual, but normally to tell me about guys or girls she's hooked up with (she's bi). It'll be something like she'll talk about a Friday night and then say "I got laid actually!" or "I've had lots of great...
  4. MoreThanSmooth

    Drinks this weekend. Tips for a fella?

    Had this girl I was friends with post a thing about her day on FB the other day. Commented on it and she hit me up saying stuff like "Hey! Glad you liked the post, I'm loving life. Newly single and feels great filling all this time I have. Still getting over a year with my ex." Seemed kinda...
  5. MoreThanSmooth

    Bunch of low qual dates, frame issue with "friend"

    Things continue to be pretty bumpy in Smoothsville. Following on from a post I made a way back. Current dating situation I've got 5 girls I'm texting with atm (one is pretty cool and even sends me nudes on occasion). I have this overwhelming sense of ennui, though. I just don't really give a...
  6. MoreThanSmooth

    Talked politics with a girl...

    ....and it wasn't clever. Quelle f***ing surprise I guess. Bit of a rant here tbh guys, I just can't really believe how this has escalated. Was talking to a chick I've known a while, she sent me some interesting political documentaries. Watched them and enjoyed them, she is very Left wing but...
  7. MoreThanSmooth

    What should I do here, if anything?

    So lads, there's this chick I've liked on and off for like 6 years but thanks to some terrible luck it never went anywhere. At one point I was pretty down about it because we were *this* close to dating and then her housemate beat me to it. Now she's split up with that dude and she seems to be...
  8. MoreThanSmooth

    What was this girl doing?

    Went on a bar date with this girl I've known a while. Started off with some light chat and she mentioned her job etc. etc. Anyway after a while she asked about any dates I'd been on, I said I went on a date last month with a girl who talked nothing but politics and ended up not seeing her again...
  9. MoreThanSmooth

    Flakey chicks

    I've noticed recently that every time I go out and post photos of my evening I get a few girls messaging me telling they can't wait to hang out with me. Then I go to arrange it and 99% of the time it never happens. Few weeks later I go out again and these same girls are messaging me again. WTF...
  10. MoreThanSmooth

    How do you deal with mortality?

    Okay so not a dating or DJ thread per se, but something every man has to face and I guess it's an interesting topic. I haven't been posting much because a few months ago I had a hospital trip with heart arrhythmia. I'm in my twenties so it's very unusual. Fortunately it turned out to be nothing...
  11. MoreThanSmooth

    How was this response?

    I've known this girl for a couple of years. Lately she's been hanging out with me, flirting with me (cuddling up and stuff) although we're not dating so I haven't given the whole thing much attention. Well, she started texting me tonight asking about some guy she had a one night stand with...
  12. MoreThanSmooth

    "Any girl would want you/"You're a good man."

    If a woman says these things to you, do you read into it? I had this female friend of mine come out with "You should really feel confident, you're a handsome and really clever guy and any girl would be lucky to have you." I've also had a girl say something like "You're a really good man, a...
  13. MoreThanSmooth

    “My legs are sore”. Wut?

    No this isn’t anything rude even if the thread title makes it seem like it haha. I was on a date with a girl today and half way through she was talking about how she got drunk and hurt her legs dancing. The thing that weirded me out was she spent five minutes telling me extensively about her...
  14. MoreThanSmooth

    Out of shape but she/they still like you?

    Feeling kinda sh*tty lately because I used to be athletic but work has destroyed my body over the last couple of years. I still have a pretty good build with the exception of my stomach, which is scarred (old surgery) and fat. Problem is, I now have a conflict between my opinion of my body and...
  15. MoreThanSmooth

    What advice would you give here?

    This post is a bit of a novel, but I can't really shorten it much more....bah, whatever. I know a couple who have been dating for about 7 years now. Both friends of mine, though the boyfriend hasn't seen me a few years so I'm actually closer to his girl. We have a few mutual friends too...
  16. MoreThanSmooth

    Lady Luck hates me

    I swear to God every time I meet a girl I actually like, I just get f*cked by some horrendous luck beyond my control. It's getting so old now, my confidence is really going down the toilet lately tbh. This is why it kind of makes me laugh that I'm still a virgin. Because I've "dated" like 10x...
  17. MoreThanSmooth

    Text game when you're busy?

    Had this sweet date with a chick a couple of weeks ago, totally nailed it. Problem is, 2 weeks is quite a bit longer than I wanted to wait to set up the second date, and looks like it's going to be longer because I'm inundated with work. The girl still seems to respond well when I text her and...
  18. MoreThanSmooth

    Party with female friend, keeping it casual?

    Over the last couple of weeks I've had some really neat dates with this one chick that have been different from the usual nonsense. She's cute and smart, very flirty and I want to see more of her. She's told me she wants to keep things pretty casual for now, she's very cool about discussing what...
  19. MoreThanSmooth

    Field Report: I momentarily went full alpha on my date, lol

    I had a first date yesterday with this girl I met online. Sat in the bar and got a bit drunk together, I wasn't 100% sure about it off the bat but had a really good time. Anyway we met online. Unexpectedly towards the end she suddenly started telling me how cool my messages were and said my...
  20. MoreThanSmooth

    Hitting the brakes?

    After depleting my last selection of plates I started spinning again this weekend. I'm talking to two girls at the moment, one of whom seems super keen (almost a bit too keen for my liking). Well, there's a girl I met a while ago that I've had my eye on for a long time. We get on really well...
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