MoreThanSmooth
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 8, 2017
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- 32
I've noticed recently that every time I go out and post photos of my evening I get a few girls messaging me telling they can't wait to hang out with me. Then I go to arrange it and 99% of the time it never happens.
Few weeks later I go out again and these same girls are messaging me again. WTF? I get they like the social proof or whatever but I really don't get this on-off "we should hang out" nonsense when it doesn't go anywhere. They're not gaining anything by messaging me and they're not making me orbit because I really don't care if we hang out or not...so their net "win" is nothing but trying to grab my attention like this. What are they playing at?
There's one girl now who kissed me last time we hung out, and every year she's like "Come to my birthday please, I really wanna see you xxx" but I only see her maybe twice a year. The rest of the year she's asking me out but it never happens even when I make an effort, and this has gone on about 3 years now.
Are some people genuinely just useless at hanging out, or are these girls playing some kind of Lord Baelish-esque intrigue that I just don't get? Because if I messaged a girl for 3 years asking to hang out and then just didn't do it they would probably think I'd gone insane.
Few weeks later I go out again and these same girls are messaging me again. WTF? I get they like the social proof or whatever but I really don't get this on-off "we should hang out" nonsense when it doesn't go anywhere. They're not gaining anything by messaging me and they're not making me orbit because I really don't care if we hang out or not...so their net "win" is nothing but trying to grab my attention like this. What are they playing at?
There's one girl now who kissed me last time we hung out, and every year she's like "Come to my birthday please, I really wanna see you xxx" but I only see her maybe twice a year. The rest of the year she's asking me out but it never happens even when I make an effort, and this has gone on about 3 years now.
Are some people genuinely just useless at hanging out, or are these girls playing some kind of Lord Baelish-esque intrigue that I just don't get? Because if I messaged a girl for 3 years asking to hang out and then just didn't do it they would probably think I'd gone insane.