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I can't work this one out. Every time I talk to this chick she's turning the conversation sexual, but normally to tell me about guys or girls she's hooked up with (she's bi).

It'll be something like she'll talk about a Friday night and then say "I got laid actually!" or "I've had lots of great sex recently."

Kinda weird, because I'm not even asking for this info. It's the same if we hang out, she's flirty but also tells me about the last guy she hooked up with or whatever.

She recently talked about how much she likes sex and even started telling me what she liked in particular but again, this was just out of the blue. She joked around when I asked if she was trying to turn me on or something, but it was unclear if she was "flirting" exactly.

Is she dropping hints or just trying to show off? :\
 

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I can't work this one out. Every time I talk to this chick she's turning the conversation sexual, but normally to tell me about guys or girls she's hooked up with (she's bi).

It'll be something like she'll talk about a Friday night and then say "I got laid actually!" or "I've had lots of great sex recently."

Kinda weird, because I'm not even asking for this info. It's the same if we hang out, she's flirty but also tells me about the last guy she hooked up with or whatever.

She recently talked about how much she likes sex and even started telling me what she liked in particular but again, this was just out of the blue. She joked around when I asked if she was trying to turn me on or something, but it was unclear if she was "flirting" exactly.

Is she dropping hints or just trying to show off? :\
Sounds like a real classy girl. Wouldn't let her meet mama ever.
 

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She just said no to going out doing something (so I assumed a rejection at first)...but immediately then offered getting drinks.
Grade A confused here, sigh.

I mean you can't define low interest any clearer lol
Yeah man, probably. I find it weird though, sometimes they're going for the jealousy angle. I'm crap at reading signals.

I think I'll get the drinks but assume low interest, she probably has herpes anyway :\
 

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OP stop wasting time and just make a move already. If she’s not interested she’ll let you know by rejecting your advances.

It’s that simple.

PS. Oh and stop trying to read signs. Some women are adept at hiding any signs of interest.
 

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**** if a girl this open i start playing grab ass. she sounds like sl.ut.
 

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You are one of her orbiters. She offered drinks because some other plans fell through and you are a backup. If you meet up with her again try to make a move if she rejects you move on, if it goes well make sure you wear a condom although from what you have described it might be wise to wear at leas 2.
 

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I can't work this one out. Every time I talk to this chick she's turning the conversation sexual, but normally to tell me about guys or girls she's hooked up with (she's bi).

It'll be something like she'll talk about a Friday night and then say "I got laid actually!" or "I've had lots of great sex recently."

Kinda weird, because I'm not even asking for this info. It's the same if we hang out, she's flirty but also tells me about the last guy she hooked up with or whatever.

She recently talked about how much she likes sex and even started telling me what she liked in particular but again, this was just out of the blue. She joked around when I asked if she was trying to turn me on or something, but it was unclear if she was "flirting" exactly.

Is she dropping hints or just trying to show off? :\
usually women talk of sex with their girl-friends and gay-friends. She's bi so maybe she's trying to show up to the men how good she's to fvck women to boost her ego, like a lesbian would do to show that she's equally or stronger than men, it's always a woman at the end and hypergamy and solipsism rule her.
 

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She recently talked about how much she likes sex and even started telling me what she liked in particular but again, this was just out of the blue. She joked around when I asked if she was trying to turn me on or something, but it was unclear if she was "flirting" exactly.
I literally can't imagine a less subtle hint a woman could give you that she wants the D. What other reason would she tell you how much she loves sex and what sort of stuff she likes?




I can't work this one out. Every time I talk to this chick she's turning the conversation sexual, but normally to tell me about guys or girls she's hooked up with (she's bi).

It'll be something like she'll talk about a Friday night and then say "I got laid actually!" or "I've had lots of great sex recently."

Kinda weird, because I'm not even asking for this info. It's the same if we hang out, she's flirty but also tells me about the last guy she hooked up with or whatever.
Sounds like she likes sex but doesn't care about commitment, expect to make her a friend with benefits if you successfully fvck her.

If she turns you down then all this means that she's just an oddly open and direct person. Which is probably a good thing if you want to be friends with her, she doesn't sound boring.


She just said no to going out doing something (so I assumed a rejection at first)...but immediately then offered getting drinks.
Grade A confused here, sigh.
She immediately offered the date most likely to get you laid after talking about sex a bunch and you're confused?
 

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In terms of quality I like this girl, most women are boring but this one seems fun and interesting. Lots of personality, lots to talk about, etc.

I think I'd rather hear a girl talk about her kinky lesbian hookups than her shopping addiction
 

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That tactic is used a lot by Cluster B to emotionally manipulate you. To slowly make you insecure, cause confusion and hopefully become attached so she gets her supply/attention.

To make you think that she is, in a sense, the chit. If you don't deal with my bs, I have a small army of others who want me and I'll fuk, so don't test me. This part is supposed to trigger fear in that you become afraid to speak up towards her chitty behavior.

For her to boast and brag is to get the much needed attention she so desperately needs. Cluster B tend to be sex addicts as they cannot form a healthy emotional attachment. That causes them to get bored real fast. Lots of sexual partners is how they get their fix.

Also looks like she did a push pull on you too. Telling you "no" on going out to doing something, which caused you to feel rejected. An emotional mind trick that caused an emotional low. Then sayin let's get drinks, which caused you to feel happy & wanted, but confused. The high and low combined are like a drug that you can become addicted to.

To me those are serious red flags to stay away. But also an indicator there is good kinky sex on the other end that I might get addicted to and end up coming back to the forum wondering wtf happened. If she you brought here to the forums with a confused mind, then she's a confused soul.
 
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That tactic is used a lot by Cluster B to emotionally manipulate you. To slowly make you insecure, cause confusion and hopefully become attached so she gets her supply/attention.

To make you think that she is, in a sense, the ****. If you don't deal with my bs, I have a small army of others who want me and I'll fuk, so don't test me. This part is supposed to trigger fear in that you become afraid to speak up towards her chitty behavior.

For her to boast and brag is to get the much needed attention she so desperately needs. Cluster B tend to be sex addicts as they cannot form a healthy emotional attachment. That causes them to get bored real fast. Lots of sexual partners is how they get their fix.

Also looks like she did a push pull on you too. Telling you "no" on doing something, which caused you to feel rejected. An emotional mind trick that caused an emotional low. Then sayin lets get drinks, which caused you to feel happy & wanted, but confused. The high and low combined are like a drug that you can become addicted to.

To me those are serious red flags to stay away. But also an indicator there is good kinky sex on the other end that I might get addicted to and end up coming back to the forum wondering wtf happened. If she you brought here to the forums with a confused mind, then she's a confused soul.
And men can reverse engineering her game/manipulation and apply to girls right? What and how would you do it?
 

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Youre her friend and will bet you have never fvcked her.

Next time just say "Come over and show me". See how long your friendship lasts after that one if she doesnt do it.
 

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You’re not socially clued in. You’re a dork in the social ladder.

At the very first or second date, when she started with this kind of talk, a social clued in guy who have hushed her with one finger on her lips and simply put his hands between her legs, starting from outside her panties and then in. She would have readily complied and been banged—or the clued-in guy would have left her right there, right then wherever you two were. Seems very foreign, right? I know.

And here you are many dates later asking the same question about the same girl whom who is doing the same thing as she did to you in your last thread about her.

She is doing the same thing EVERY girl has been doing to you in the dozen threads you created since you joined the forum.

And here you are making the same identical mistake once again with yet another sob story, mirroring your last 10 sob stories.

You’re socially retarded Yet smart and educated. A grave disparity. Work on your social acuity now. This should be your focus.
 

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Youre her friend and will bet you have never fvcked her.

Next time just say "Come over and show me". See how long your friendship lasts after that one if she doesnt do it.
And if insult her? just to have fun?
 

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When in doubt, escalate. You will have your answer.
 

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And if insult her? just to have fun?
now you are guessing right,

serious a girl who came out telling you she had sex with anything who walk on 2 legs(and hopefully stay on only 2 legs) would feel offended if you scaled for sex? if she did you better leave, there is nothing here for you, she already told you, she is only good for sex, you want a relantionship, so unless you have a cuck fetish, please growth a pair
 

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now you are guessing right,

serious a girl who came out telling you she had sex with anything who walk on 2 legs(and hopefully stay on only 2 legs) would feel offended if you scaled for sex? if she did you better leave, there is nothing here for you, she already told you, she is only good for sex, you want a relantionship, so unless you have a cuck fetish, please growth a pair
Who cares if it insults her or not?

What is this chick doing RIGHT NOW to take care of OP's needs? Nothing. Thats what.

Put her on blast to either put out or get out.
I don't want a LTR, I wanna spin as many plates as possible and fvck as much pvssy as possible.

This woman probably has a lots of orbiters and if what she say is true a lot of beta **** buddies.

Alpha is how alpha does, but how manipulate this kind of woman? How to fvck this woman? I ask because I never met a girl like that and if it will ever happen, i want to fvck a girl like that, because I wanna show myself that I can manipulate and apply game with women also in this situation, I wanna that this kind of girl gotta chase me, not because i wanna this kind of girl, but wanna know that I can make her chase me, spin her, that my skills can and so on, just for the taste that this pornostar type. My gut feeling tells me that I Should upset her insulting and having fun of her. I know i can, but i want to understand the nuts and bolts of how manipulate this type of girls.

I will always act indiscriminately without giving a fvck of morality like an alpha and like, and if it doesn't work, NEXT.

I wanna know just as student of life, for an academic reason
 
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