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Right attitude Dear sir I think you have the right attitude by not making a fuss. If you tried to tie her down by your side, it would only show your insecurity. Let her have her own activities, which in any way you cannot control. By being ok with it, you show confidence. I have had...

Sure go, why wouldn't you? Have fun at the game, cheer her on, have fun with her and with life. Do you calculate and censor eveything that you do? If you do, you must feel paralyzed. If the gal is great, go with the flow and do have fun with her. This girl sounds like fun, good for...

Your premise that you should have a healthy relationship with mutual respect, and a mature relationship is great and a great goal to strive forward to; be it with this girl or with any other woman that you will frequent. I encourage you to maintain that goal and it is my own premise for...

Dear sir After a certain amount of time which differs for everybody, a fight for power and control frequently ensues in a relationship. This women is establishing her power in the relationship. It is up to you to see if you can bear with her. If you do not feel respected and do not share...

Yep Yep she's interested. Go for it.

I'll try another angle. Young lady you cannot expect any person to «commit» after a couple of months of relationship. If you continue to expect a guy to do so, you will not have any success. Or, if you do meet a guy who is prepared to do so after such a short notice, the «engagement» will...

Thank you for your post Young lady Thank you for your post. You remind us that there are princess' out there and the reactions from your girlfriends do also remind us that quite a few girls think they should be treated like some. Let me get the facts straight: You write that your...

Top three interesting books I suggest the following readings: «The emotional intelligence» by Daniel Coleman. «A road less travelled» by Scott Peck. «The 48 laws of power» By a Mr. Spencer if I remember rightly. Somebody wrote these laws on the site about a month back. The book is...

Wine through a straw! Yark! I agree; even with a golden ass, that girl is not worth the time of day! Bye and give her a wine etiquette book. Is that one of the ways that american girls drink wine?

Bom dia Bom dia Fabio Remember that you must find happyness in yourself. Sure having a girlfriend can do wonders for you, however, having a girlfriend is not essential for your happyness. I suggest that you concentrate yourself in activities that will make you happy. How about...

I think you've got it right. With Kate Bekinsale I would also learn and find magic.

Well Crêpe, I am both happy and sorry to read that your Fancy Fiddle stopped «playing» with you. I think that you are better off without her as I believe it is impossible to have a rewarding longer term relationship with a warped instrument. You would only accumulate strident noises...

You're not her Dr.Phil! You are not her therapist. Let her or her mother work out her problems if she has any. Do not listen to this girl's mother! You will only be drawn into her problems if she has any. Also, this girl does not want your "helping" hand or your shoulder to cry on, why...

Hello Johnnyrem I hear your complaint. I guess that you ran into too many princess' out there. The current generation of beautifull girls have been quite pampered by their parents and society. Beneath a tin veneer of skin some of them are revealing Mr Hide personalities. Some of them...

That is very funny. Don't worry about it. Let it go. Sure he might be attracted and he can even it on her. So what? Don't make a fuss about it. If you do it could quite put a dent in your relationship with your girlfriend and you will probably lose your frienship to your friend...

Hello young man Make advances to the girls that you are interested in. Don't worry, you are sure to be rejected sometimes, but you just shrug it off. First of all, practive makes perfect and it sure will work out eventually. Don't let the rejections bruise your ego. Just accept them...

Why do you wear black all the time? You must look like the odd man out so you are treated like one. You are creating the situation. Blend in and go with the flow or else you will be treated like an outcast. Dress like everybody else and put a smile on your face.

Hello She's probably also about 30 so her biological clock is running. She wants kids and all the rest but she teases you and wants you to chase her. Like an other person answered, she is establishing her power in the relationship and wants you to kowtow to her. Gently pull away and you...

You can only smile at the audacity of this girl. The next time that she tells you something like this, ask her if she still believes in Santa Claus.

For a cultural reference I add. Don't kowtow to her like she is the princess or she will treat you like a peasant. The kind of advice that you should call her often, give her gifts, ..., should be taken seriously only if you want a relationship in which you have given the power to the girl...