"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She probably likes me, right?

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I saw a woman at work I hadn't seen in several years. This is because she's in a different department, I'd moved away, she works at home a lot, etc. It's a big company.

Several years ago, this lady stopped me, she demanded that I talk to her. I was more shy then than I am now. I had no concept of game whatsoever, so I was prone to walking around in my own thoughts.

Fast forward, I've lost weight, I have game, I'm not as shy. I said hi, gave her my name, we talked a little while while walking down the hall.

She essentially confessed that she was lonely and didn't have anyone to deal with at work or at home besides her dog. She seemed to catch herself doing this at the end, but it's very "I want a man" type behavior.

I think I'll ask for her number. She's an HB7 I think. yes, she does seem a little starved for attention--no not attention companionship, but that should make it easier. Is there something I could be forgetting?

Even though we work for the same company, we're so far removed, both physically and job-wise that I dont' think its' a big deal.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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an interested woman wouldn't make you ask yourself these questions
 

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sh*t, my bad mack, i posted the on the wrong thread......
 

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
You think??? Hahaha Thats funny...

My quesiton is why stick your pen in company ink?
If someone works in a division pretty far removed from you, it shouldn't matter. Only if she's a psycho chick.
 

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The other thing that's important here is that this is the mature man forum. This is a "mature" woman, meaning in her 30s. They hve different issues. I see a lot of concern about biological clocks, and if they're still single, they're likely to have been more career oriented.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well yes she is interested.

If a woman (HB7) is telling your she is lonely and you don't even know her - RED FLAGs !!! attention ***** / psycho warning !!!

Thats really a bad sign so beware.
 

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My gut reaction

is that she's a psycho poised for action.
 
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