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Young man You are passionate and want to fall in love and to live the passion. Well do oblige yourself and have fun. Expect however that these feelings will surely not be eternal. You will probably sometimes crash and burn in the future, but you will have lived and learned and that is what...

Nope It sure doesn't have to be an all or nothing scenario. You do not have to rebel or create an issue with them. Just negociate with your parents an acceptable arrangement for you both. That is the mature way to handle it. Be persuasive and consistent with your demands. Your...

Have good clean hot sex and fun. Other than that, don't do it! Read the book «In praise of older women». It will give you insights. Surely you must know that having a kid with her would be foolhardy at best and probably a crazy idea. Come on, there are other women closer to your age...

Dear young man I suggest that you aim for the 27 - 33 years old time frame. Do NOT get hitched before 27! Sure you can have all the girlfriends that you want and you might also have multi-year relationships beforehand. But, don't get married before that time frame; it just isn't worth it...

Dear young man You are a good kid and wise for your age. You have good parents and they are doing what they think is best for you and as parents. However, as some other parents do, they are smothering you. Tell your parents that if they do not let you do your own things (cooking...

She's 19 and making you pass tests and jump through oops and loops. I wish you good luck because you could be in for an interesting ride if you play along. If you do try to play games with her, be strategic and cut it short if you get more aggravation then pleasure.

As you are about having fun with him and are not planning for a future with him, why don't you just continue with this actual plan and arrangement? Have fun with him as he does with you. Don't expect anything more than that from him as you yourself are not offering more.

Hello Omega My adolescent boy sent my message to you without my having time to complete. Once Ghandi was angry and he told his wife that she should get out of his house. His wife asked him : «Have you no shame to do this to me?». Gandhi relent. The mores are not the same in India...

Hello I think we must be carefull about the suggestions and advice that we must give you as the implications could be quite dramatic for you and for your girlfriend. I recently read a biography about Ghandi. It doesn't really matter, however I'm curious. What is your religion? From...

Dear sir We are worlds apart in mores and relationship practices. I think you must be prudent with the advice that you will get from this site. If you are still in India and/or frequenting an Indian «girl», you must be carefull with the moves that you make. What is accepted and...

What's her telephone number so that I can call her? (ha ha ha!)

Take a break for three weeks (no messages, no calls, nothing), then call her to chat.

Dear sir Though you want to get involved, I advise you to stay clear. You have a pretty good chance of getting sucking in their vortex of desparation and of paying dearly for THEIR problems. You don't know what you are getting into and where it might lead you. What if one of them on a...

Well JcKey Armies from your country asks young men your age to stand firm in front of enemy fire or to face up to an enemy coming at them for their life with a knife on war front zones; you should be able to stand firm to your own urges and to an 18 year old woman. Don't you think so...

Be friendly like you do not care, but put her off.

JcKey Females playing mad at you is a classic manipulation tactic to put you at a disadvantage. DON'T fall for it. This is quite disruptive behavior on the part of a woman. I personnaly did fall once for that kind of behavior (well we live and learn), and I did pay extremely dearly for it...

I had a french girlfriend for 4 years in my twenties. Great girl! Wow the sex with her! What I can advise you to watch for, is not to behave like the obnoxious american in Paris. Play it low profile because americans have a bad reputation in quite a few countries for being too much...

If you feel that you are the one that is wrong, then you are obviously unsure of yourself. You don't need to find the correct psychological reasons; just correct that way of thinking. Her answer is ok, up to the point and not wishy washee. But, it would be ok to take time away from her...

I think you reacted in the perfect fashion. You didn't react much to her disruptive bahavior, you had «your» own plans, so you did not give her the power that she was trying to gain.

Just read your last post. As your are writing that you don't have time for games and that you are in a hurry, that just gives her the upper hand and more power in the relationship. She must have felt clearly your eagerness and now you are dealing with her from a position of weakness...