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My plate went on a weekend trip two weeks ago, I initiated communication (asked to snap) during that to stay in contact and try to tie her experience to me. Last weekend she went again, she didn’t communicate, and I “caved in”, messaged her today, Tuesday. So, I chase her. This is not good, but...

I'm 38, but people say I look 29. Gym, have done a lot of various kinds of cardio (running/social dancing). No direct skincare, but the dead skin-ish is starting to show. It saddens me. A lot of stress in my life, but I still look young. Dress young, music preferences etc. are young, got...

No. Might be a little bit. ;-) That was a quick and dramatic interpretation. My answer: I don't know. I don't think she had someone steady before she met me. It's a really good connection and she's onto me in many ways. It's still early, time will tell. I have the gut feeling she's an...

Nothing in particular. I don't fap so I don't see such a purpose, for instance. However, I am an amateur photographer and think and enjoy visually, so I see that aspect in it. I have consumed porn (long time ago but much), so that's a frame of reference for me. Though good question, enjoying...

I have this delicious plate but she doesn’t want pictures/video taken. We have great sech, good trust and connection (“When’s your birthday?”) but she’s a no no on the camera, which hence is a bit odd. It can be a question of trust — she do give signals on trust but also mentioned taking it slow...

I disagree. You can as a man win on IG and OLD by simply being an attractive man. Hence the eternal debate about whether OLD works -- it works for those who are attractive. That's what my channels says. I have a friend who got "that lifestyle" and the car, etc, and yes, his statistics are what...

I've recently started using phone number or Snapchat (popular in Sweden amongst younger) due to that my current Instagram profile derails girls. I unfortunately have a wrong profile, cultural capital, so for instance one girl couldn't process it and went home and did art instead of dating me...

One aspect is identity. Moving to another country and try to fit in their culture, language and have a functioning identity can be hard. I spent a long time in a country, for long feeling like Edward Norton's character in Fight Club, trying to speak the language, but was never really accepted or...

Related thread: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/game-with-different-languages.278268/

I’ve noticed that my identity and language is much better in English; it’s masculine, free, dominating, flirty, confident. Now I’m back in a country speaking Swedish where I’ve never developed or used such skills, I left when I was 17 and never had successful game here. What have people done to...

My theory on this that whether to have "a lot" or "little" of eye contact is something a long the power dimension. Much eye contact reduces the man's amount of power and instead builds connection, in short. This is why I think it creates trouble for me. I'm relatively short, so I can't afford a...

As others here I have openers about apparel or something else nearby, in cold approaches. I often get conversations, sometimes IG closure. However, I’ve noticed that even though thoughtful compliments of them is (periodically highly) appreciated, it’s as if the interaction merely is a daily...

Yeah, might well be the case, but other explanations in this thread are viable too. Bisarr what the reason can be. I got an athletic build, buzz cut, well dressed, though short (170 cm), and I can't currently think of more suitable dialog. I don't see the question or statement. Yeah, I...

Yeah, I have trouble with that too. It feels narcissistic and woman-ish to flaunt oneself like that. But I think one has a healthy/strong self esteem if one is proud of oneself to the degree one can post such pictures. I have a friend who has slept with about 300 girls (I believe him), and his...

I buy this. Looks and physique is there (based on what others say to me), but the vibe and lifestyle is not there. It was a cold approach and then IG chat.

She wrote "You're almost twice my age". She is for sure above 18 (drinking). Likely 22, from the yellow pages.

I’m 38 but as a late bloomer I am mentally young, though I guess all men like young girls. Problem is, I often get the “you’re too old”, either directly in person, or later on. Today I managed to banter away “how old are you?”, but she looked me up on the internet later on. Then the “You are...

By googling “men's eye contact” hits emphases eye contact as something positive. My experience is that it’s actually the opposite that makes a girl chase and establish rapport. This is supported by leadership literature that says that those with little eye contact has more power. (More “HR-ish”...

I’m 38 but look 30 and have SMV relevant for girls that see 30-ish as relevant. If I swipe Tinder currently I get what often is mentioned here on SS: single moms and obese things, etc. I cold approach and use social venues a lot and in many ways prefer that, but think that having Tinder can’t...

Yeah, I believe I socialise broadly and there's something socially competent about me I believe. I've socialised a lot, but am average, I don't perceive me as worse or better than those in the environments I am. I think I have guts for cold approach, virtually see no one do that in Sweden, but...