How do you determine the interest levels?

[BaronOfHair]

@Sega Genesis "A man automatically "putting her away for awhile" without considering all the various nuances could actually make things worse!"

Yeah, a great deal of the theorizing on dating and mating is comparable to most(though certainly not all)martial arts practices, post-WWII

Just as the latter is often highly effective in the dojo amongst nice people, but craps out miserably in a bar brawl with vicious brutes who've done hard time in federal pen, the former goes smoother than Vermuth on the page when one is simply imagining a scenario, but leaves much to be desired in RL. Ex.

A gal who's little sister was just mauled to death by a pack of ravenous timber wolves as she watched on helplessly, 15 mins before a fella initially approached her, may be more receptive to his efforts, a few months afterwards

 

[BPH]

level of cooperation

This was the right answer.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

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Needless to say, touching using the Vin Di Carlo escalation ladder

Compliance itself isn't always the best litmus test if you have a free-spirited girl or headstrong woman who is still interested and open to fast seduction. Conversely, she could be submissive and follow along to whatever, but still have reservations about sex.

An escalation ladder I found on reddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2is9ej

 

[nicksaiz65]

Needless to say, touching using the Vin Di Carlo escalation ladder

Compliance itself isn't always the best litmus test if you have a free-spirited girl or headstrong woman who is still interested and open to fast seduction. Conversely, she could be submissive and follow along to whatever, but still have reservations about sex.

An escalation ladder I found on reddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2is9ej

Throwback. I nearly forgot about the Vin DiCarlo escalation ladder

 

[Gamisch]

Every man must experience at least a couple of times what's it like to have a woman 100% obsessed with him.

It will show the contrast between the women you've been chasing vs women chasing you.

A little bit of objection doesn't mean that you can't ever get the woman, but WHY does she make it difficult? Because she's is " a holy principled virgin" or because she is weighing all her options and you are at the bottom of that list?

If you know how women that really like a man behave, you will understand that any form of non-compliance = disinterest. Regardless of how much YOU want her..

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Every man must experience at least a couple of times what's it like to have a woman 100% obsessed with him.

It will show the contrast between the women you've been chasing vs women chasing you.

A little bit of objection doesn't mean that you can't ever get the woman, but WHY does she make it difficult? Because she's is " a holy principled virgin" or because she is weighing all her options and you are at the bottom of that list?

If you know how women that really like a man behave, you will understand that any form of non-compliance = disinterest. Regardless of how much YOU want her..

I will say that, as you alluded to in your post, that a "holy principled virgin" or any kind of woman who has reservations about having sex with men in general, demonstrating non-compliance does not mean disinterest, and this is something that imo can throw guys off.

 

[BadBoy89]

For me, its if she initiates.

For me "level of cooperation" doesn't mean much. If she cooperates, she is likely thinking "ok, I got nothing else to do, let me hang out with this sucker for a while, maybe I can get a free lunch out of him"

But if she initiates? Oh man, you are living rent free in her head and have frame.

My thoughts only.